New-Again Posted September 2, 2015 Posted September 2, 2015 I went through a terrible break up about 5 years ago. Then I met the person I've just broken it off with and thought this was it. I've found the one. But he can't be. He doesn't want the same things as me (due to the age gap), like kids, marriage and buying a home together. I probably should have broken things off well over a year ago when he told me he didn't want kids but it's hard to let go. So now I've broken it off. Day one. Not feeling great but I've been here before and I know what no contact is and so determined to stick to it to feel better. I joined a forum after my previous break up and it really helped so I thought I'd do the same this time. Hope this sort of post is allowed. Thanks. 1
Oregon_Dude Posted September 2, 2015 Posted September 2, 2015 Sounds like you made the right choice in regards to your lack of compatibility and life goals. Better now that later. Just be glad you are the "dumper" and have that advantage of making the decision. Now you know what you want, and won't settle for someone who doesn't want the same things as you. 1
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