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I never thought I would resort to coming online and asking anonymous people for help but I feel like I am now losing my mind and not sure if I need to talk to people or just need professional help now.

i'll start by explain what has happened so far, I feel for a girl way back in school when I was 15/16 and we got pretty close, then at around my 18th we just settled for friendship which I took hard and stopped seeing her. she started seeing someone else from my school for a couple of years but eventually we became friends again. She broke up with this fella and then started seeing someone else. I was gutted but didn't take it too badly and carried on as if nothing affected to me and carried on being friends with her holding in all my emotions and sucking it up. 5/6 years pasted and I still had strong feelings for her and recently she broke up with her long term partner ( 6 years). she then started texting me some weird things then asked me if I still loved her, I ignored it saying its not really best to talk about as she was in a bit of a state but she kept asking so I eventually told her I haven't been able to stop thinking about her since the day I meet her even when ive been in other relationships. She then told me sorry but we can only be friends. So I had tried to suck it up and carry on.

 

 

a few days later shes talking to me about who she likes and who she wants to sleep with, at this point I couldn't take it any more and we got in a bit of an argument which ended up me saying we cant see each other at all anymore. The problem is she's in my group of very close friends and my local area.

 

 

2 months have now passed and I say I've only seen her 2 or 3 times when Im with my friends and she seems to be really happy but in an attention seeking sort of way like laughing really loudly when she gets a text from some other males and now I think shes seeing a young man. It seems like she wants to keep me thinking about her and losing my mind over her. I know she's said a few nasty things about me as she said it to my friends who told me she's being nasty and it seems like she wants this to get to me.

 

 

I cant seem to get it out of my head and I just want to know what shes doing who shes seeing etc.

 

 

Im sorry if I seem a bit over the top but I really have no one to turn to as I don't like talking to my friends about it cause its given me trust issues.

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Honey you are hanging on to a childhood crush who moved on from you years ago. You have to find a way to put her in the happy memory category. She isn't interested in a future with you. Until you put her in a box labeled "the past" and shut the lid tight she will continue to prevent you from having a present.

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Thank you, it never really crossed my mind like that and you know what, I think your 100% correct. It has held me back in all aspects of life at the moment but hopefully not much longer. I think its probably best to try and avoid her at all costs then. Once again thank you, a quick message of support never fails to put a smile on others faces.

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