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Broke up with Boyfriend after he lied and he hasn't called

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Hello,

 

It has been over two months since I broke up with my boyfriend of two years. I loved him and he loved me but we dealt with minor problems. I gave him everything, I loved him with my whole heart and I made sure I was there for him through all the stressful things in his life. We broke up because I found out that he got coffee with this girl I've never heard of a week later. He kept it a secret and his dishonesty hurt me. We both cried our eyes out as we said goodbye, we said that we loved each other, and shared a last kiss. I contacted him the very next day telling him I wanted to talk to him and I sent him our song. He replied with "can I call you later, I'm with my friends." I said "never mind" and since then he hasn't tempted ANY communication at all! Except for liking SOME of my Instagram pics...

 

Why hasn't he called? It makes me feel like I was nothing. During these two months I have dealt with moving to a different city, starting college, and moving forward with my career all without him showing support.

purplesorrow Established Member

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You can't have it both ways. You broke up with him which means you fired him as your support system. He is now moving forward without you and you will have to do the same. Do you feel breaking up was a reasonable response? You appear to be having second thoughts and regrets.

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Diezel Established Member

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You broke up with him.

He doesn't want to call you.

 

He shouldn't call you. He's doing the right thing by not calling you.

BetrayedH Established Member

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You can't have it both ways. You broke up with him which means you fired him as your support system. He is now moving forward without you and you will have to do the same. Do you feel breaking up was a reasonable response? You appear to be having second thoughts and regrets.

 

No kidding. She broke up and then called the next day.

 

He said he would reach out later and then she says, "nevermind."

 

OP, you twice sent him the signal to move on. So he moved on. What's confusing?

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You broke up with him. After that healthy people don't call & chase.

 

 

Also I hate to say this but he's probably not calling because he's on other dates with the girl he had coffee with.

 

 

He shouldn't be liking your IG. You need to block him off all social media. Do you really want to be connected so you can see all the happy fun pictures he's posting with her?

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I think what she meant to say was, "you're in the doghouse, buddy boy" but when she opened her mouth some other words came out.

 

English as a second language, lesson #1:

 

"In the doghouse" = I'm not happy and you must do penance until I get over it.

"Breaking up" = hasta la vista baby, go bang whomever you want.

 

ps: if that's actually your pic in the avatar, he must be gay

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You broke up with him.

 

 

 

 

Still confused?

 

 

 

 

You. Broke. Up. With. Him.

understand50 Established Member

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Hello,

 

It has been over two months since I broke up with my boyfriend of two years. I loved him and he loved me but we dealt with minor problems. I gave him everything, I loved him with my whole heart and I made sure I was there for him through all the stressful things in his life. We broke up because I found out that he got coffee with this girl I've never heard of a week later. He kept it a secret and his dishonesty hurt me. We both cried our eyes out as we said goodbye, we said that we loved each other, and shared a last kiss. I contacted him the very next day telling him I wanted to talk to him and I sent him our song. He replied with "can I call you later, I'm with my friends." I said "never mind" and since then he hasn't tempted ANY communication at all! Except for liking SOME of my Instagram pics...

 

Why hasn't he called? It makes me feel like I was nothing. During these two months I have dealt with moving to a different city, starting college, and moving forward with my career all without him showing support.

 

Romcomgirl,

 

You sound young. Looks like you did not really want to break up, and over reacted, so if that is the case, you will need to go to him in person and see if you both have a chance of getting back together. Next time remember words have meaning.

 

Or, You broke up with him. He is taking you at your work and going no contact. This is what you want him to do, if you really broke up with him.

 

Wish you luck.

bachdude Established Member

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Romcomgirl, if you broke up with him for having coffee with another girl, how do you think his next girlfriend would feel if she found out he was still communicating with you, his ex?

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ps: if that's actually your pic in the avatar, he must be gay

 

Just because someone is hot doesn't mean they can't be a pain to be with.

salparadise Established Member

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Just because someone is hot doesn't mean they can't be a pain to be with.

 

Absolutely... in fact I'd say there's often a positive correlation there. I just thought that avatar pic was oozing sexuality and of course wondered if it was actually the OPs pic. It's not of course. If it was, I'm sure OPs guy would've been quite tenacious with respect to jumping through hoops to stay in the pink.

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