Concernedgf Posted September 2, 2015 Posted September 2, 2015 I'm in a long distance relationship, we meet about every second week. We were together last weekend, and it was really wonderful. It felt like we were very close and connected during that time and he was warm and loving, telling me he loved me a lot. He talked about the future and about me moving to his city. We've been together for about 2 years. However, from the moment I went away he feels kind of distant and way colder. He sent me few texts but barely asks how my day was and things like that. Basically he wrote I love you, period. I don't know if I should worry about this or not. I feel like I want to keep the feeling of intimicy alive even after we parted. He might be tired or busy, or just filled up with enough love after a whole weekend together. I havent brought it up, becausy I don't want to put any pressure to him because it might just distant him more. But I get very worried, I usually get worried easily though and get irrational in my thoughts. We don't talk about things as much as before, we used to have very deep conversations, but at the same time we were still getting to know each other during that time. I d think he feels very comfortable with me which is good, but I wish we could be more connected and talk about things like we used to. I'm always worried that he's bored with me. Is it normal that guys pull away after being intimate emotionally? I do understand that he can't be as loving constantly and have other things in his life too, I just really miss it when he pulll away? Have you experienced something similar in your relationships?
WorriedL Posted September 6, 2015 Posted September 6, 2015 I know exactly how you feel! Bar the long distance I am in the same scenario as you. You get close and connected then all of a sudden they aren't as interested in you and you dont understand whats going on. Ive been with my boyfriend nearly 5 years and he has done this to me a few times- still a mystery to me why he does it! Just keep your mind occupied with something else and fill your days so that you arent sat wondering about it, your thoughts are your own worse enemy you may make something out of it that isnt there (trust me I've done this too many times and it doesnt feel good). Just relax and focus on yourself for a bit
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