robbysurfs Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 Hello all, Its been awhile and if you read some of my past posts i have had my heart kicked in the you know what. I am back dating again and seeing whats out there. Mind you I live in nyc and everyone is single braking up or dating someone new its crazy. I am 39 years old and I have met someone new I am actually really interested in. The story goes like this out of no where she friend-ed me on instagram and liked a bunch of my photos and commented on some. I looked at hers and noticed we have mutual friends and she was super cute. I basically dm-ed her and got her phone number. I waited like a week to txt her and I did ask her out she said she was in and out of town. We were supposed to meet one day didnt pan out. Another week went by and asked her out and she said yes and we met for dinner. We had a great time we laughed we shared and all around it was very comfortable. Here is where i turn to yall with advice. I been out of the loop for awhile and sometimes women can be hard to judge. This particular woman is 37 owns her own business and knows a lot of people. Not that that means anything but this is what I am dealing with she has got stuff on her plate which is good. However after the date i said i had a good time and she said she did too. I then asked her would you like to go out again she replied yeah but i dont know when, and I felt the vibe like a yes/I dont know maybe basically kind of vague. She gave me a really solid hug and said text me. The next day I thought about that and kinda felt in my gut, maybe she just n not that into me and I didnt text her. So today she text me and basically asked me hows my foot because I have a fractured foot and showed up on the date with crutches. I said its getting better and reminded her i had a good time the other night. I said I want to hang again and she replied yeah hit me up. So asked when she was free lets see a movie she said i wont be able to anything until next week let me hit you up when I get back from upstate. I dont know what do do from here obviously the balls in her court so i guess Ill just chill for time being. I think she is interested or maybe not this is where I am lost...
jam.over.jelly Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 This is exactly my situation. I would say she likes you, but not head over heels. Similar to your story I went out with a guy recently and we had a great time. He actually beat me to the first text and told me he had a great time and would love to see me again. I liked him, but not a whole lot. I then thought to myself, what I gotta lose, give him another chance, so I replied "I would love to see you again too". Then I changed my mind, as sad as it sounded, my interest was just not enough. So I texted him 2 days later telling him the truth about how i felt. I guess my take on your case would be to wait and hear from her, if time passes and she doesn't mention anything about seeing you again, text her first and ask her again if she would like to hang out again. If her answer still seems unsure, then move on.
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