fred123 Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 Met a girl online (not on a dating website). Friends of friends. Started talking casually but i find her cute. We text all the time all day for the last couple of weeks. Girl lives a few hours north of me. Is this girl interested? Why else would a girl message a guy all the time and initiate?
d0nnivain Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 texting means nothing. All the time may mean she's bored & you are more interesting then doing nothing or you give her the sense of being popular. Ask to met with her mid way between you & her. Do not ask your screening Qs before. Judge her behavior when you see her & do your screening before you ask her on a real date, like dinner.
Redhead14 Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 Met a girl online (not on a dating website). Friends of friends. Started talking casually but i find her cute. We text all the time all day for the last couple of weeks. Girl lives a few hours north of me. Is this girl interested? Why else would a girl message a guy all the time and initiate? Well, she is bored, doesn't have any friends, no life, who knows? If you are interested, have a car and some time, call her and ask for a meet up somewhere half way, at a restaurant for coffee or a bar for a couple of drinks. It's been two weeks, make a move. What are you waiting for? This would be a long distance relationship, if it develops, so you both need to be very strong, secure people and build enough trust between you to make it work at all. So do be careful and think it through.
vanillacupcakes Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 It could go either way. But my personal inkling is that she just wants attention. Women love attention (most women) from any man willing to give it to her, regardless if she'd ever give them the time of day or not. Since you two live hours away from one another, my feeling is that it might be the case since most people would not consider dating someone they have to drive that far for. But I would just be upfront and ask her what she's looking for since it's been a couple weeks that you've been communicating. Why not ask her in a phone call though? Texting is too impersonal. Good luck!
Zippy2000 Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 Texting is nothing. I have a lot of female friends who text me for idle chit chat. I have one who texts me every day and the other one every other day and both are in relationships so I know its not going to go anywhere. Ive learned in time anyone can text you. Women like to "attention whore" themselves. I spoke to this girl for over six months and asked her to meet. We met up once but after asking her to meet up again. Its not happened. If a girl was into you they would want to see you. I agree with most posters on here. Get to know her a little and find out if she wants to meet. If she brushes you off and the contact level drops off. You`ll know where you stand. 1
Strahatmak Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 It sometimes depends on the context of your texts. To me, it is... Angel version: I found this guy caring, nice and friendly enough, so I feel comfortable to chat with him. (If the texts context is not all about fun or chitchating then) he is quite reliable and he responds to me when I need a pair of ears. Evil version: this guy is a nice time killer. I know he's kinda fall for me so when I am bored or need attention, he's always there for me (but not necessory making too much effort to keep him around.)
Author fred123 Posted September 2, 2015 Author Posted September 2, 2015 Thanx for the advicw guys! Im trying not to make the same mistake with the german girl like last time. Well she lives around 5 or 6 hours drive so would be difficult to meet for a few hours. Iv tried flirting with her on facebook so she knows im interested in her more than a friend. Will try call her tomorrow to actually talk with her in person. Will keep you guys updated
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