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I think i can either:

1) Have fun with her

2) End it

3) Run away and elope together and have a dreamy life with lots of pretty pink rose petals and unicorns...

 

Sorry did I go too far with that one?

 

Look you are starting to fill in on all the details... If you get into a relationship with this girl you are both going to have to stand up to her parents/ your parents and tell them this is how its going to be then deal with the fall out from that. Can you with stand that or are you just doing this for the drama and sensationalism of it all?

 

Try talking openly and frankly with her. Get a game plan going if you want this to work out.

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Sorry did I go too far with that one?

 

Look you are starting to fill in on all the details... If you get into a relationship with this girl you are both going to have to stand up to her parents/ your parents and tell them this is how its going to be then deal with the fall out from that. Can you with stand that or are you just doing this for the drama and sensationalism of it all?

 

Try talking openly and frankly with her. Get a game plan going if you want this to work out.

 

Lol, no you did not go too far. The 3rd option and what you explain is exactly what I want but I don't believe that is going happen.

 

I've been waiting for a girl like this since my ex, and now she's here now but there's such a major caveat. Her parents most likely will not accept me. No matter what.

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Lol, no you did not go too far. The 3rd option and what you explain is exactly what I want but I don't believe that is going happen.

 

I've been waiting for a girl like this since my ex, and now she's here now but there's such a major caveat. Her parents most likely will not accept me. No matter what.

 

I kinda guessed that.

 

You need to talk to her. A good old fashioned down to earth chat about where its all going and how you as a couple could possibly help her parents overcome their issues...

 

Unicorns are rare but I guess you may find one if your sensible about it.

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I kinda guessed that.

 

You need to talk to her. A good old fashioned down to earth chat about where its all going and how you as a couple could possibly help her parents overcome their issues...

 

Unicorns are rare but I guess you may find one if your sensible about it.

 

I agree, I definitely need to have a long talk with her. So so many unanswered questions.

 

She still hasn't replied to my text from last night. I feel like I'm being used here. What should I do next? Just wait?

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I agree, I definitely need to have a long talk with her. So so many unanswered questions.

 

She still hasn't replied to my text from last night. I feel like I'm being used here. What should I do next? Just wait?

 

Yup.

 

I think you both know you are onto a loosing streak here.

 

But as good ol' Humph Bogart said "We will always have Paris"...

 

Sorry dude but the others were right... You two are in for a whole heap of hurt and she knows it too...

 

Sometimes you just have to accept it and move on.

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Yup.

 

I think you both know you are onto a loosing streak here.

 

But as good ol' Humph Bogart said "We will always have Paris"...

 

Sorry dude but the others were right... You two are in for a whole heap of hurt and she knows it too...

 

Sometimes you just have to accept it and move on.

 

Damn dating blows sometimes.

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Damn dating blows sometimes.

 

Tell me about it.

 

It must work out sometimes though or no one would ever be getting married... :o

 

Chin up chook.

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