tsa902 Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 Hi. Is it healthy to spend every single day with the girl that I'm seeing? We met in college and she is in every of my classes. We see each other everyday, we sometimes spend the weekend together, when we are on holidays we try as much as possible to see each other. She also just got off a long term relationship and 3-4 months ago and now she's with me. Should I be worried about this? Are these types of relationship healthy? I know my two friends who are in a long term relationship (over 2 years+) but they only see each other fortnightly or monthly and they're as strong as ever. Just your opinions,
Frank2thepoint Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 You're both in the same school and same classes. Seeing each other can't be helped. Even if you two broke up, you'll still see each other. Now the real question is if you guys are spending actual free time together, all the time. If so, then yes it is too much. Try to find somethings to do apart from each other once in a while. Pursue your hobbies and have her do the same. Go hang out with your friends, and have her do the same.
road Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 You enjoy each others company then there is no problem. How about the married couples that work a family business together. Side by side every day 365.
Redhead14 Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 Hi. Is it healthy to spend every single day with the girl that I'm seeing? We met in college and she is in every of my classes. We see each other everyday, we sometimes spend the weekend together, when we are on holidays we try as much as possible to see each other. She also just got off a long term relationship and 3-4 months ago and now she's with me. Should I be worried about this? Are these types of relationship healthy? I know my two friends who are in a long term relationship (over 2 years+) but they only see each other fortnightly or monthly and they're as strong as ever. Just your opinions, It's not a good idea to spend that much time with a new dating partner. It smothers the potential for the relationship to develop. I'd say that since she is recently out of another relationship, she is distracting herself from the pain of that "loss" by spending so much time with you. Your friends who are in long term relationships are not in "relationships". They are friends with benefits or simply stringing each other along. Seeing each other so infrequently doesn't foster a real relationship either. I'd slow things down with this girl if I were you if you really like her. She needs time to heal from the previous relationship.
d0nnivain Posted September 1, 2015 Posted September 1, 2015 Since you see each other in class, perhaps join a club she is not in so you have varied interests.
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