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Ex contacted me, we're supposed to hang out, now ignoring me


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Long story short - we've been broken up for a year, and she started texted me. We had plans to meet up, but she had to reschule because of a minor surgery. She asked if last week was good and I agreed. We texted back and forth a few times after that, but when I texted her last week to see if we were still on, she ignored me. Now still no word from here...what is going on?

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...what is going on?

You have failed to initiate NO CONTACT with her. That's what. ;)

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If you had written here the moment she proposed this to you, I would have predicted as much. You're getting the textbook treatment. The only way you accept that offer is if you have no intention of showing.

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Let her go. She changed her mind.

 

Next time she texts you out of the blue, ignore her.

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Long story short - we've been broken up for a year, and she started texted me. We had plans to meet up, but she had to reschule because of a minor surgery. She asked if last week was good and I agreed. We texted back and forth a few times after that, but when I texted her last week to see if we were still on, she ignored me. Now still no word from here...what is going on?

What happened? seriously do you wanna know what happened? lemme tell you what! she and her current boyfriend were starting to have serious problems, monkey syndrome which most girls suffer from pushed her to make sure that the other branch is still safe, so that she can jump to the other branch, if the current branch broke down! seems they have addressed the problem and the branch is safe again....STAY AWAY FROM THIS GIRL! even if she came back, that would not be for you, it would be for having a safe branch until she can find another branch!!! ahhhh these people! block her! block anyway she can contact you! I don't want to seem harsh, but pal! I am in a worse situation that yours, the girl I loved so much left me for her ex 3 weeks ago, but I will never take her back, because I know what's going on, and I know if she showed up that would not be for me...Listen to me! this girl of yours died a year ago... go back in time and take a look at her miserable grave, if you have to...

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What happened is that you gave her exactly what she needed which is an ego boost to know that the person she rejected (I assume she broke it off with you) still has a soft spot for her and is at her beck and call should she be in need.

 

It's been a year, let it go, stop engaging and most of all stop massaging her ego.

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