Chibaby Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 Just curious, do any other women out there feel like they have to compete with sports for your man's love? I just don't understand why he can jump for joy for sports, but when it comes to us getting married and our future he says his emotions are "on the inside" and doesn't show them because of his bad past. Well what does his past have to do with us, and why doesn't his bad past affect his emotions towards sports. What???!! Someone please explain?
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 I don't even think you can compare love and sports. Total opposite end of the spectrum. Your comparing emotional feelings with the bond between men, beer, ball scratching and sports. I'm sure you have the same reaction to a nice pair of shoes you see. Its more of an excited feeling than actual emotional feelings. Don't base your relationship on a touchdown that the Patriots make.
Author Chibaby Posted May 12, 2005 Author Posted May 12, 2005 Why does everyone who replies to my posts make me feel like a retard? Of course love and sports are two different things. God, I'm enlightened! And by the way, not every girl likes shoes all that much. I like puppies a lot more.
Naive Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 I actually have a thread about this subject!!!! and yes, lately, I feel like I am competing with sports for my bf's attention!!!
Author Chibaby Posted May 12, 2005 Author Posted May 12, 2005 And by the way, I would think sports make him emotional. I mean, he crys when they lose, is mad when they loose, gets moody, is happy when they win...if that ain't emotion what is?
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 The kind of emotion that means nothing. No deep feeling are involved with sports, If so then he has a problem. Why can't he have his sorts and his alone time with his sports. If its affecting other things, ie things aren't getting done b/c the Yankees are playing then thats a little more serious. You need to tell him that sports aren't everything and that (if) your relationship is getting affected then you need to do something about that. But tearing a man away from the TV during NBA finals, your luck to come out with all limbs. If he cries when they lose, you have bigger problems.
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