Gaeta Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 Some people don't understand how cultural traditions can weigh heavy on some people, yes even on a 42 yo man. We can't apply North America mentality to this case presented on here. I say OP have a calm conversation about what exactly is going on with his parents and what is going on with him. Ask him if he feels under pressure, what kind of pressure, how big of a pressure. 3
edgygirl Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 Now that I realized he's Italian and they only been dating for 2 months and his parents are in town, I changed my mind - it makes total sense for him not to want to introduce OP, and not spend nights out out of respect for his elderly parents. If my parents were visiting me (and they do sometimes), I'd do the same. Not comfy, but 2 months is kind of too early to introduce someone to the parents specially in certain cultures. 2
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