lovesickgirl Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 So, I met a guy recently. He's from NY, me from Seattle. Opposite sides of the country. I told him we could be "pen pals" since he travels to sea for work. I saw him this week, one thing led to another & upstairs to his room I went. He's probably the sexiest man I have ever laid eyes on (Imo) I want to the shock him and have him remember me. I watch a TV show call Ray Donovan, I wanted to be like Ashley Rucker. I played my cool we talked a little he got up to go to the bathroom and when he came out I was in my lingerie sitting on the office chair with my legs up on the table. Lets just say I caught his attention... When we woke in the morning I had to leave for work I asked him if I would see him again? He said what do you think with a smirk on his face, & I left with a smile on mine. As soon as I got to work I realized I had left one of my favorite custom-made gold earrings!!! I told him to hold onto it for me since its precious to me. It's only been three days but I haven't really heard from him, (I don't mean to sound adolescent for mentioning this) I've posted some snap chat public stories to my wall and he's always top person to view them. All his public snaps are basic bachelor in bed with his dogs watching tv. I don't know how to feel, I've been thinking of him a lot, more than just a hook up. I haven't met someone who mentally stimulates me quiet like him. If nothing becomes of this I would be happy I got to share that one night but on the other hand I don't know if there's even a chance. I figured if you didn't want to see me again he would've asked for my address and send the earring back already or left it at the front desk of the hotel but he did neither... Is it save to say he's playing his cool and we will see each other again? I'm feeling like a stupid girl at the moment and forgot how to chill.
JewelD Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 He'll probably get in touch and give it back when he wants to have sex again. Or he may have just decided that he's no longer interested and too 'busy' to bother returning the earring. I mean, if you sleep with someone and you like them, I'd imagine you'd contact them within at least 48 hours. Otherwise it's def a booty call. You never know, he may get in touch again. But if you want something besides FWB with him, I would try not to sleep with him again the next time you see him.
CarrieT Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 I think you were a booty call and may never see the earring again...
Author lovesickgirl Posted August 31, 2015 Author Posted August 31, 2015 He was suppose to leave on a day I was to busy to see him but he stayed an extra night to spend time with me.
Versacehottie Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 I don't know if you guys will have a future or not. I will just say that guys are typically more practical in the sense that they can compartmentalize women as "geographically undesirable" and leave it at that. I think no matter what he has no sense of urgency since you live across the country. Good luck
Ruby Slippers Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 I think you're clearly just sex for him, and he'll be in touch next time he's in town and wants to have sex. Given that you haven't heard from him in 3 days, it's obvious he doesn't have any deeper feelings for you. Sorry.
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