nyah Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 Been with an amazing man for 9 months, have both spent most of our time with each other and other times with friends and fam, yet for some reason, every time we have gone on a trip or do something fun together and I post a joint photo on FB, he instantly untags himself....yet he never does that if anyone else does. What does that say to you? It's actually starting to make me feel really horrible.
JewelD Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 That he doesn't want certain people to know he has a gf. My bf never uploaded pics of us together and after awhile, completely unfriended me. I was still hanging around his friends and family, but he wanted his fb to be a place where women who didn't know him thought he was single and available. Idk if that's what your guy is doing, but it sounds fishy. You guys are dating though, you should definitely ask him about it. If he gives you a bs excuse, you'll know. 1
yxalitis Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 Err...ask him why? Maybe he just has a thing against facebook, and wants privacy in an ever more intrusive and invasive world?
Conners Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 you've been together 9 months.. why don't you just ask him straight up? otherwise I'd speculate that he wants to a) appear single b) you tag him in wayy too much over the top lovey Dovey posts and pictures (my cousin does this to her boyfriend and he doesn't always approve it on his page because its flat out embarrasing.) c) he's ashamed of the relationship are you guys "facebook official"?
Author nyah Posted August 31, 2015 Author Posted August 31, 2015 That he doesn't want certain people to know he has a gf. My bf never uploaded pics of us together and after awhile, completely unfriended me. I was still hanging around his friends and family, but he wanted his fb to be a place where women who didn't know him thought he was single and available. Idk if that's what your guy is doing, but it sounds fishy. You guys are dating though, you should definitely ask him about it. If he gives you a bs excuse, you'll know. Thank you. It's honestly been in my thoughts. I will definitely say something.
Author nyah Posted August 31, 2015 Author Posted August 31, 2015 you've been together 9 months.. why don't you just ask him straight up? otherwise I'd speculate that he wants to a) appear single b) you tag him in wayy too much over the top lovey Dovey posts and pictures (my cousin does this to her boyfriend and he doesn't always approve it on his page because its flat out embarrasing.) c) he's ashamed of the relationship are you guys "facebook official"? Haven't tagged him much and never lovey dovey stuff...just jet-ski ing, dirt biking etc....thus the reason I am dubious considering his mates tag him 24/7 and 'no issue'. I would hope he's not embarrassed by me. Don't understand what reason he would be though....I guess that's a matter for discussion.
lovesickgirl Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 I don't want to scare you by saying this but I want through a similar situation. It turned out not only was he cheating on me but he had another girlfriend on the side that he hid so well, this went on for almost a year under my nose. I would do some serious research on his social media see who is liking his stuff the most and then check out their profile .. I found my answers that way .
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