Sigueme Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 I am going with one of my children to a place about every 2 weeks. The person we see there, a man, has a crush on me. It is not possible to talk to him because my child is with me. The thing ist that this crush is extremly strong and I keep thinking of him all the time. I decided the other day to leave home a bit earlier, and I was thinking of him, then I crossed him just a bit outside my home!!! My heart was beating really fast! This man does not live here. Then a few days later I went shopping, and I crossed him again, my children were with me so I could not talk to him. As far as I can understand is that while he is working, he ist not going to propose me anything. I can see his "suffering" every time we are there. Every time we leave I can feel his eyes carressing my body, it's so strong. Now a question for you men: how would you react, if a women that you have a crush for, ask for you a date you while you are working, you want the women but can't ask. I am just scared to get a no, but in fact I know he is burning for me.
Frank2thepoint Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 Now a question for you men: how would you react, if a women that you have a crush for, ask for you a date you while you are working, you want the women but can't ask. If I was interested in a woman, and she asked me out, then I would react positively by accepting her invitation to a date. But this is me. You're not going to find out how your man will react unless you ask. Don't be afraid of him saying no. If he does, at least you know it wasn't meant to be.
carhill Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 Now a question for you men: how would you react, if a women that you have a crush for, ask for you a date you while you are working, you want the women but can't ask. Well, I've only had a couple real doozies in life so, at my age anyway, the answer would be 'let's go to lunch'. The boss can't fire me since I'm the boss. Heh.
Author Sigueme Posted August 30, 2015 Author Posted August 30, 2015 If I was interested in a woman, and she asked me out, then I would react positively by accepting her invitation to a date. But this is me. You're not going to find out how your man will react unless you ask. Don't be afraid of him saying no. If he does, at least you know it wasn't meant to be. Thanks, YOU got the same name as this guy, Tiger is my favorite animal. It was coincidence that i crossed him twice, and as I got a lot of coincidences in my life, I do want to see this guy.
katiegrl Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 I am going with one of my children to a place about every 2 weeks. The person we see there, a man, has a crush on me. It is not possible to talk to him because my child is with me. The thing ist that this crush is extremly strong and I keep thinking of him all the time. I decided the other day to leave home a bit earlier, and I was thinking of him, then I crossed him just a bit outside my home!!! My heart was beating really fast! This man does not live here. Then a few days later I went shopping, and I crossed him again, my children were with me so I could not talk to him. As far as I can understand is that while he is working, he ist not going to propose me anything. I can see his "suffering" every time we are there. Every time we leave I can feel his eyes carressing my body, it's so strong. Now a question for you men: how would you react, if a women that you have a crush for, ask for you a date you while you are working, you want the women but can't ask. I am just scared to get a no, but in fact I know he is burning for me. Hmmm, so you can see his "suffering" every time you're there, feel his eyes caressing your body (it's so strong), and know he is "burning" for you. Sweetie, I am really intuitive too, but are you sure you are not projecting here? Often times, when we are crushing hard on someone, it is very easy to project our own strong feelings on to them and thus make all sorts of presumptions. When the reality is you are just another customer. Has he made any attempt to speak with you at all? So what if your child is with you ...I would think if he were interested, he would find a way to chat with you, especially when you crossed with him, he could smile at you, stop and ask you if you need assistance, something!! Has he done anything? If not, then I am NeIT sure how you could possibly know he is *burning* for you, etc, other than your own projection. 1
ScotchBeef Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 if you are 100% sure that he actually does have a crush then I guarantee he will accept your proposal of a date. Sounds to me like the "crush" is the other way around though 1
katiegrl Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 (edited) if you are 100% sure that he actually does have a crush then I guarantee he will accept your proposal of a date. Sounds to me like the "crush" is the other way around though Agree with this, and IMO a better idea would be to first attempt to strike up a convo with him, like asking his help finding something. If he seems responsive and attentive and starts asking you questions ...and wants to remain in your presence for no reason, then yeah I would say he has in interest, and you could suggest lunch. But if it were me, I would not ask him out willy nilly based on your presumption that he is suffering and burning for you. Just me.. Edited August 30, 2015 by katiegrl
Vercetti Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 Why are kids with a limiting factor? Hand him your number with Coffee? written on it. Then see what happens. Simple. 3
katiegrl Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 Why are kids with a limiting factor? Hand him your number with Coffee? written on it. Then see what happens. Simple. That's pretty bold, but sure why not? If he IS burning for you, he will be all over that and call you immediately after work, if not sooner!
Vercetti Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 What do you have to lose. He doesn't go out with you, same difference. He does go out and you like each other, win. There is nothing wrong complmenting someone find attractive.
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