marcusdevilliers Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 hello everyone. i have been with my girlfriend of almost 3 years. we were school lovers for two years. saw each other everyday almost for two years. we were in love i loved her she loved me. said she would always love me. after school finished was hard to see her, she couldnt go out much and i could not really see her. we talked over the fone and all that but never saw each other really. recently she just told me she doesnt love me no more. i know because of the circumstances things would be hard but i thought we loved each other so much that things would be easy. im really trying with her. shes going university now and i can see her now and spend time with her but she doesnt want that. i never gave her much space so i dont know if i leave her alone how things can be, or after a month or so i should try to meet her because her birthday is in october. shes practically my dream girl and we had a very good relationship. i really want to make things work with her. we are broken up now so ihave the usual break up feeling, its really hard. i dont know how i should approach her again to make things work, i told her how much i loved her and what she means to me. she says we cant be together and we were so good so im very confused. any help would be appreciated. thank you
ExpatInItaly Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 hello everyone. i have been with my girlfriend of almost 3 years. we were school lovers for two years. saw each other everyday almost for two years. we were in love i loved her she loved me. said she would always love me. after school finished was hard to see her, she couldnt go out much and i could not really see her. we talked over the fone and all that but never saw each other really. recently she just told me she doesnt love me no more. i know because of the circumstances things would be hard but i thought we loved each other so much that things would be easy. im really trying with her. shes going university now and i can see her now and spend time with her but she doesnt want that. i never gave her much space so i dont know if i leave her alone how things can be, or after a month or so i should try to meet her because her birthday is in october. shes practically my dream girl and we had a very good relationship. i really want to make things work with her. we are broken up now so ihave the usual break up feeling, its really hard. i dont know how i should approach her again to make things work, i told her how much i loved her and what she means to me. she says we cant be together and we were so good so im very confused. any help would be appreciated. thank you These two points contradict each other. If you never really saw each other, how did you not give her space? It sounds as though you're both quite young. It's a sad but normal fact that these types of relationships don't last forever. Unfortunately, if she doesn't want to make things work again there's nothing you can do. Both people need to want it, but she doesn't want the same things you do anymore. All you can do is respect her wishes. There is always a chance that with time, she will miss you and want to try again. However, don't wait around for that as it might not happen. Start to focus on you and your own interests and goals, apart from her. Be kind to yourself. 1
Author marcusdevilliers Posted August 30, 2015 Author Posted August 30, 2015 In terms of not giving her space I mean I use to always rush her to talk bout things and always just wanna talk. Its really hard for me to do that knowing how we were and how we felt about each other. We were 18 n 19 wen we started. We were always there for each other and we made a lot of plans together. I have this feeling about her it feels so much more than love.
Author marcusdevilliers Posted August 30, 2015 Author Posted August 30, 2015 What you say makes a lot of sense. I won't totally give up but i will focus on myself more abd if its meant to be she will make an effort. Thank you. 1
turiax Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 Well... She doesn't love you anymore so just move on now. Don't stick around for this roller coaster game she is about to pull off. 1
coryreply Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 What you say makes a lot of sense. I won't totally give up but i will focus on myself more abd if its meant to be she will make an effort. Thank you. I think this is the right approach for you to take. Hang in there! 1
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