2011 Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 Hi I met this girl through friends a few months ago and slowly but surely we are starting to see each other more frequently. At first she was quite aggressive in pursuing but I said I don't want to rush into anything. She started wondering if I liked her, I said I did and it was that I am not one of those types to rush in to things. I think that side of it is ironed out. However something is eating away at me about this RL it is that this girl has her own kids and I want my own now. I quite sure she doesn't want any more. To actually be honest I was quite sure we wouldn't have lasted because we were quite argumentative and fell out a bit at the start but slowly we started meeting again. I wasn't thinking too much about what I actually want and my future but Now as she seems to becoming more serious about it I'm thinking maybe I should tell her this about I want my own kids. What your thoughts on how I could word it. I'm thinking that she'll say why did you not say at the start. but as I said I did not even think we would have lasted even a couple of weeks so I thought at best maybe we would see a month out it and she would dump me or something, but now it's growing into a proper RL. Thoughts gratefully accepted Thanks 2011
Gaeta Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 Very simple. Ask her if she meets the right man if she'd be open to having more children. Done. I don't see that is touchy about it. 1
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