Told friends about sex and girlfriend found out after promising to keep it private

[autumnnight]

Again, so it's okay for her to tell her friends but not you?

 

She needs to forgive you and accept that since you two are a couple, eventually people will assume you're having sex. Because, that's what couples do!

 

Make her understand that you're not going into details with your friends and that you respect her and wouldn't ever betray her by sharing intimate details..

 

Can people not read where he said more than once that SHE asked him BEFORE she told anyone....while he just blabbed?

 

Come on people.

 

She told her friends but asked me before she told them if it was ok with me first

[2.50 a gallon]

What goes on behind bedroom doors, is nobody's business!

[Qboro90]

Oh jeez, just tell her that eventually people are going to know that neither of you are virgins anymore. You got giddy and excited and pulled a guy move and told your best friend. Yea it was inconsiderate and immature but you're a 17yo guy, you're gonna do inconsiderate immature **** from time to time.

 

Ask her if she thinks other than that lack of common sense incident if she thinks you're a good BF? If she says yes then say that if she really wants your relationship to progress and work out then you both need to be able to get past the little arguments and fights you have. If small things turn into month long hot and cold behavior where she pulls back and things aren't normal then you'll encounter far worse as time passes and won't make it through those.