bubbaganoosh Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Friend . All she's doing is laying a whole lot of nonsense in your lap and telling you to deal with it and your doing just that. There comes a point when enough is enough and the next time she brings up her old boyfriend to you, then look her in the eye and tell her that maybe she should go find him and patch things up with him and tell her maybe the reason why hes her ex is because she tried to mold and shape him into what she wanted instead of accepting him OR YOU for who you are. I would also let her no that she can stand a few improvements herself but your big enough to look past her imperfections..............until now. Link to post Share on other sites
regine_phalange Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 It's your first relationship and it's all you know, and I'm sorry that she happened to be your first girlfriend. She treats you as if you are just filling a certain position in her heart, with specific requirements. And you allow her. This is not love. Not from her side. She's never going to love you or accept you for who you are. There's nothing wrong with you. She's the one who lies (about her being over her ex) and controls (by lowering your self-esteem). Don't fall in that trap. Let her go and find a girl who's thrilled to be in your company. Even if she says that she loves you rest assured that it's for her own selfish reasons and that her love has nothing to do with you. Link to post Share on other sites
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