OCCDAVE Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 This girl i know hasn't picked up her phone all week or reply to my emails so i'm guessing it's over.I made a mistake by not calling and then called almost every day to try to work things out but no luck.I know people will say you can find someone else which may be true for others but this is the first time a girl has gone out with me in over 2 years.I know it's sad but true anyway i'm gonna send her a final email any advice i really like this girl
westernxer Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 Don't send anything to her... you've already done enough damage by barraging her with e-mails and such. How long did you wait to call her? (In college I waited a year to call this girl who liked me. It made her VERY upset, but I felt she overreacted: I wasn't looking for a relationship at the time, at least nothing permanent. That's the last time we ever spoke.)
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 12, 2005 Author Posted May 12, 2005 I waited a week but only cause it was one of those crappy weeks plus i had work which i explained to her so the last time we talked which was last week she said she wasn't mad.Maybe she is just busy cause if she really liked me i honestly did nothing wrong for her to ignore me
sweetpea01 Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 I wouldn't send her anything. Who knows - maybe she just got extremely busy, and was planning to return your call this weekend. The worst thing you could do is send her a 'farewell' email. Just give it a couple days...if she never writes back, then let this one go. SP
westernxer Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 Originally posted by OCCDAVE I waited a week but only cause it was one of those crappy weeks plus i had work which i explained to her so the last time we talked which was last week she said she wasn't mad.Maybe she is just busy cause if she really liked me i honestly did nothing wrong for her to ignore me A week is nothing... sometimes people lose interest. Just don't drown them in phone calls and e-mails.
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 12, 2005 Author Posted May 12, 2005 I tried emailing her she logged on and read it but no reply i give up owell
ConfusedInOC Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 Dave, you don't really have a relationship with her. Forget about it, she's probably not interested. Please don't grovel/beg. That only makes it worse. I would have just left one message explaining my tardiness and left it at that. Women like mysterious, hard to get men and you (and I) haven't done a good job of being either.
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