AirGordon2245 Posted August 28, 2015 Posted August 28, 2015 Basically everytime im talking to a girl at work, some guy that she knows comes by and includes himself in the conversation. I always play it cool like it's not bothering me, but the girls attention always shifts to other guy and starts another convo with him. Personally I find this disrespectful. How should I handle this, whenever it happens?
d0nnivain Posted August 28, 2015 Posted August 28, 2015 It's work. You are supposed to be working. If your conversation is work related, do speak up but if you are just flirting, assume she is paying more attention to him because she fancies him more than you. 1
jen1447 Posted August 28, 2015 Posted August 28, 2015 Are you into her, or are you just talking about work/whatevs? If it's love, the guy's probably cockblocking - either bc he loves her too or bc he's a self-appointed hero. (Or both.)
coolheadal Posted August 28, 2015 Posted August 28, 2015 Then walk away from her. If you so she might go and get you and start talking to you. If not then you know she's not really into you at all. Again these things happens and you just have to live through these events. It's all a learning experience.
madjac74 Posted August 28, 2015 Posted August 28, 2015 Basically everytime im talking to a girl at work, some guy that she knows comes by and includes himself in the conversation. I always play it cool like it's not bothering me, but the girls attention always shifts to other guy and starts another convo with him. Personally I find this disrespectful. How should I handle this, whenever it happens? It depends on where you work. Arby's or Congress?
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