brokengirl85 Posted August 28, 2015 Posted August 28, 2015 I'm not being able to move on. While I know our relationship was not working because he just didn't love me and I was not the one for him, I miss the times when we were together. I miss seeing his face, hearing him laugh, I miss his hands touching me, his timid kisses, the way he looked at me. Yes, the way he looked at me, even though he never loved me. Five months later and he's not in my life anymore. He's supposedly moved on, who knows. Me, I wasn't able to get a single date that would make me feel excited about. The guys I like blatantly ignore me, and the other ones are players, losers, too old or too young. At this point, I think I'll have to deal with the fact my ex was an uncommon man who chose to share some of his time with me. Something no other attractive guy can give me. At this point I have to accept it was just an exciting experience and is no more. I feel sad, I feel angry, I feel hopeless. And I don't know how to move on and finally accept I'm alone. I don't understand things have to be this way. I don't get why we have to unnecessarily suffer this much.
aloneinaz Posted August 28, 2015 Posted August 28, 2015 I'm not being able to move on. While I know our relationship was not working because he just didn't love me and I was not the one for him, I miss the times when we were together. I miss seeing his face, hearing him laugh, I miss his hands touching me, his timid kisses, the way he looked at me. Yes, the way he looked at me, even though he never loved me. Five months later and he's not in my life anymore. He's supposedly moved on, who knows. Me, I wasn't able to get a single date that would make me feel excited about. The guys I like blatantly ignore me, and the other ones are players, losers, too old or too young. At this point, I think I'll have to deal with the fact my ex was an uncommon man who chose to share some of his time with me. Something no other attractive guy can give me. At this point I have to accept it was just an exciting experience and is no more. I feel sad, I feel angry, I feel hopeless. And I don't know how to move on and finally accept I'm alone. I don't understand things have to be this way. I don't get why we have to unnecessarily suffer this much. If this post was from a close GF of yours, what would you honestly say to her? Would it be that you've put this ex on far to big a pedestal? Would you tell her to be patient and let more time pass and continue to date? You know that you're making this ex out to be all that and a bag of chips. He didn't feel it with you. Lots of people would do the polar opposite with their thoughts. They'd think F-him! His loss and move on. They accept that it takes lots of dates of kissing frogs before you meet your next prince. Keep working on yourself and address these broken, unrealistic thoughts about someone who didn't want you. Keep dating when you're up to it. Time passing and continued NC will get you there. 1
Samuel_22 Posted August 28, 2015 Posted August 28, 2015 I'm not being able to move on. While I know our relationship was not working because he just didn't love me and I was not the one for him, I miss the times when we were together. I miss seeing his face, hearing him laugh, I miss his hands touching me, his timid kisses, the way he looked at me. Yes, the way he looked at me, even though he never loved me. Five months later and he's not in my life anymore. He's supposedly moved on, who knows. Me, I wasn't able to get a single date that would make me feel excited about. The guys I like blatantly ignore me, and the other ones are players, losers, too old or too young. At this point, I think I'll have to deal with the fact my ex was an uncommon man who chose to share some of his time with me. Something no other attractive guy can give me. At this point I have to accept it was just an exciting experience and is no more. I feel sad, I feel angry, I feel hopeless. And I don't know how to move on and finally accept I'm alone. I don't understand things have to be this way. I don't get why we have to unnecessarily suffer this much. Hi...I am sorry for all the pain you are going through... well the way I see it, the only thing that has happened here is that you have lost your self confidence, the first thing that you gotta do here, is to boost your confidence, go to gym, work out, and turn yourself to your best version, let these stupid ideas go away forever! yes you heard me! let them go forever! Your world is what you make it, your thoughts have a direct effect on you life, when you think only losers are attracted to you, so you attract losers! you have to have this self confidence inside you to attract those you like, believe me! it can't be seen, but guys feel it from distance... one more thing you have to know is that some one's appearance is not that important, you should look for someone who literally LOVES you! who would do anything for you! you seem like a nice girl, you have to be strong, you will go through this stage as well 1
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