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[ajakap8885]

Thank you all who read and respond to my message in advance. About 5 years ago, I went on a few dates with this guy. I stopped seeing him for whatever reason. About a year (give or take a few months) later, he contacted me again and tried to see me. I told him no and he said a few hurtful words..which granted I deserved at the time. Up until about a year ago, he has tried contacting me a few times. A year ago, he contacted me and I responded to him. I was honest and told him I had a boyfriend. He respected that and we still talked. He then invited me to a get together he was having at his house. I got a little bit drunk and fell asleep. He woke me up in the middle of the night and things happened. I ended up breaking it off with my boyfriend at the time, because of the incident and I didn't love him anymore. Despite what I told him, he thought that I still had a boyfriend. He got a girlfriend and I stopped talking to him. About a month later, he took his relationship off of facebook. At random times, she has popped up on his facebook..but now she is no longer his friend on facebook. For almost a 8-9 months now, we have been seeing each other. I treat him as nicely as possible...bringing him his favorite foods and tiny little gifts. He has kept all of my gifts, including some pasta roni noodles that I bought him thinking he was hungry one night (it is in his room and not his kitchen). About two months ago, we have been spending more time with each other. He has introduced me to his dad and asks me to help him with stuff around his house/spend time with me. His dad still talks to me through email. He has girlfriend like expectations (spending time with one another, helping him, etc) of me, but I don't know if he really does like me..because he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend..so I just don't know if I should continue seeing him...mostly because I don't know if he wants the same thing I do..a relationship.What should I do? Do you guys think he wants anything of the sort?

[La.Primavera]

This could be easily cleared up if you just asked him.