LoveIsMyReligion Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 Yeah man you gotta stop torturing yourself. This isn't some video game you can win. You sound pretty stubborn, like myself, and are having difficulties accepting the fact that she isn't interested. This doesn't mean in particular that there's anything wrong with you; it simply means you two are too different to make things work. 1
BriNyc82 Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 Yeah man you gotta stop torturing yourself. This isn't some video game you can win. You sound pretty stubborn, like myself, and are having difficulties accepting the fact that she isn't interested. This doesn't mean in particular that there's anything wrong with you; it simply means you two are too different to make things work. I gotta agree! It's not a game. This is not about your ego. I know you want to say "hey wait, actually I DONT WANT YOU and I'm going to end this so there" Well I'm glad we all agree that you both don't want each other now. The good part? You can actually move on and be happy now =) 1
Tobin Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 now I came across this article the other day, and I thought well would it be worth it? [commercial link redacted - well known get ex back resource] The long and short of this is 1:Go no contact for 14 days(I am going to go for the 30 days version since, she has gone back to her ex and not a new boyfriend, so I need problems to resurface) 2: send a message and ask how she is doing 3: after 3 days send another message like I have to tell you something, and reply after 6-7 hours and say for example the new episode of walking dead is out 4: after 1 day again send a message and say a funny story that has happened to you 5: win rapport and totally cause this confusion, this is the aim to confuse her again I dunno, it sounds rather unnatural, structured, artificial, manipulative.. you can't really win a person back using fake techniques, it's not real and it won't last, and it's not even nice.. but hey maybe that's just me. I hope you didn't pay for that advice. 1
Author Samuel_22 Posted August 27, 2015 Author Posted August 27, 2015 Yeah man you gotta stop torturing yourself. This isn't some video game you can win. You sound pretty stubborn, like myself, and are having difficulties accepting the fact that she isn't interested. This doesn't mean in particular that there's anything wrong with you; it simply means you two are too different to make things work. God damn video games then hey? I was a computer game addict YES! LET HER GO! I am not a doormat, and the difference between ''things may work between us'' and '' you are the only one'' is colossal, it is monumental, a friend taught me...even if she came crawling back, I wouldn't take her, why should I? to be her rebound for the second time? NO NO NO! I am not that miserable... 1
Gus Grimly Posted August 27, 2015 Posted August 27, 2015 God damn video games then hey? I was a computer game addict YES! LET HER GO! I am not a doormat, and the difference between ''things may work between us'' and '' you are the only one'' is colossal, it is monumental, a friend taught me...even if she came crawling back, I wouldn't take her, why should I? to be her rebound for the second time? NO NO NO! I am not that miserable... You're gonna be fine bud. It's inspiring to see you so positive and full of self-confidence. You're an inspiration to anyone who reads what you're going through and is going through a similar situation as you. I'm really glad that you took the advice you've been given to heart. It's not easy, but your focus and strength gives encouragement to us all. 1
Author Samuel_22 Posted August 27, 2015 Author Posted August 27, 2015 You're gonna be fine bud. It's inspiring to see you so positive and full of self-confidence. You're an inspiration to anyone who reads what you're going through and is going through a similar situation as you. I'm really glad that you took the advice you've been given to heart. It's not easy, but your focus and strength gives encouragement to us all. Thanks to you man!!! Thanks to you!!! 1
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