thehawke Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 Hey people of the internet, I could do with a little advise. Basically, Id be interested in asking out this co-worker of mine... But I don't know how to approach anything like this :\ What's a good subtle/friendly way to ask or gauge her interest? A little background: Not long ago I started working at a café/restaurant place. When I joined I joined with two others, one being the girl. As you sometimes do with your starting group at a workplace - you have that little group bond. Since then; the other guy has left just leaving me and the girl. Now, I think I may be leaving soon as my hours are reducing, as is the way with that line of work. Before I leave id like to ask this co-worker to... hang out I guess. I like her but I don't get an "interested vibe" but truth be told I never can tell, if there is or was it'd go right over my head unless it was obvious. Shes kinda "introverted" in her own way but ive seen her laugh with co-workers and she seems nice... I mean, I don't make her laugh, but we get along Id like to know her better but id want to ask her subtly as I don't wanna make any weird moves or make it awkward. She can be quite friendly and last time I met her I felt like she dropped me a... carrot. mentioning she was going to hang out with friends after work... didn't see it at the time and just said "have fun", or then again it could have been nothing. I show interest in her in a friendly way, asking about her life but never going into much detail. I usually stumble into relationship as im just not good at gauging interest or ANYTHING XD I was going to drop hints like "Unless I saw you outside of work" hint hint "I probably wont be running into you much anymore" That's kinda rubbish, but that sounds kinda ehh, haha. Anyone have any suggestions/encouragement/discouragements? Sorry its a bit long, but if any of you have any ideas, itd be appreciated
d0nnivain Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 It's a restaurant job, not your career. All the prohibitions against dating in the work place don't apply. Just say, hey would you like to grab a drink, a coffee an ice cream with me after work? Keep it simply, light & casual for the 1st ask.
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