Dystopia Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Ok, so I have a little problem. A little bit about me: I'm a senior in high-school, and never really had any experience at all with girls, and tend to be an introvert when it comes to basically everything. There's this girl in my psychology class (a junior) that I've liked for the entire year. It's almost the end of the year, with like fifteen days left of the school year, and I want to take a chance and see if anything would ever happen between us. Here's the bad news; I've never spoken to her before, I sit right next to her, and have no idea if she would have interest in me, nor do I know if she has a boyfriend, yet it's not evident to me, so either she doesn't, or she may but he does not attend my school perhaps. I can't even think of HOW I would ask her out let alone speak to her about anything, the only thing I know about her is that she's a cheerleader, likes hockey, and I guess is taking a computer programming class in school. I love computers but don't really want to come off like a "nerd" or anything like that or hint something the wrong way with her with interests etc. I'm stuck between what I should/can do. I feel that I should take a chance, but the other side of me says that really I've already lost it and there would be no point. If anyone could help suggestions would be appreciated, thanks.
HokeyReligions Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 If you share a class -- ask her some questions or for some help pertaining to the class. That would be a good ice-breaker and from there you can ask her about herself and not feel like a nerd. "Thanks for the help, [name]. We sat next to each other the whole time in this class and yet have never really talked---would you like to get a soda after school?" Try something like that. If she says thanks but no, then at least you tried. She will be flattered at the attention.
westernxer Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Start by getting a feel for her personality... ask about her summer plans, college, what have you. Just shoot the breeze and see if she reciprocates. If so, then go ahead and see if she wants to "hang out." If she doesn't respond favorably, well then, at least you tried. It happens to everyone.
Author Dystopia Posted May 11, 2005 Author Posted May 11, 2005 arlight thanks I'll try tomorrow. Here's what I'm thinking though, ok say I do ask her questions tomorrow... she just responds like she would anyone, then I just forget it? or keep talking to her? will she indicate an interest in a response? Like will I have any hint to continue to talk about her? Thanks again sorry to be a burden ><
westernxer Posted May 12, 2005 Posted May 12, 2005 You can usually tell if they like you (or at least think you're cool) if they smile back and ask you questions as well. It'll actually feel like a real conversation. That's how you'll know. If it doesn't, then don't push it.
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