xingyi Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 I had a few hook ups with a cute guy. Our sex stopped because of a fighting through text A couple of months later we talked again, but he started to ask if I had been with anyone else since him. we always had unprotect sex. Last time when we met he asked me the same question again. I told him I hadn't had sex with anyone after him, he seemed happy after hearing that and he tongue kissed me before our sex, and it was our first time kiss using the tongue. Before he left he asked me why I didn't have sex with anyone since him, I said that was just because I was busy.. He was kind upset after hearing that, saying that he thought he was someone special to me... Does this guy have any feelings for me? Or he was just doing this for his ego and was afraid to catch std? He is in a long distance relationship now. After I knew he got back with his girlfriend, we stopped the contact again..
Qboro90 Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 He was just trying to stroke his ego and get you to say that you hadn't been with anyone else since the last time you were intimate with him. There is really no right answer for that because if you say "yes" then he's gonna think you sleep around, but if you say "no" he's gonna think "oh she was hung up on me and couldn't date/sleep with anyone else Bc she never got over me". Don't stress over it, if he's dating someone else then it was just him wanting to feel better about himself by knowing you hadn't slept with anyone in your time apart.
losangelena Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 That's his ego. The next time someone asks you that you say, "none of your business."
yxalitis Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 It's such a stupid question for him to ask..I mean..you can always just lie...right?
SmartDude Posted August 26, 2015 Posted August 26, 2015 Before he left he asked me why I didn't have sex with anyone since him, I said that was just because I was busy.. He was kind upset after hearing that, saying that he thought he was someone special to me... Does this guy have any feelings for me? Or he was just doing this for his ego and was afraid to catch std? He is in a long distance relationship now. After I knew he got back with his girlfriend, we stopped the contact again.. Ya he might have feelings for you. You never know. But if you both play it too cool, no one will ever say how they actually feel. He might be in the "second honeymoon" phase with his girlfriend. People often get together then break up and get together again before its really over
Author xingyi Posted August 27, 2015 Author Posted August 27, 2015 Ya he might have feelings for you. You never know. But if you both play it too cool, no one will ever say how they actually feel. He might be in the "second honeymoon" phase with his girlfriend. People often get together then break up and get together again before its really over Before I thought he just wanted sex, because he always left after the sex was over. We never dated before. But he had sent mCe mixed signals. If I had no feelings for someone, I wouldn't have ask him if he was sleeping with someone else. He has a girlfriend who is moving in with him a few months later, but she is from another country.
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