sanne Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Well you'd think after getting caught lying my ex would put a stop to that kind of behavior, but I get the distinct feeling she's up to her same old tricks again. I've actually had it with her, and I'm planning on totally breaking her heart and leaving her in the cold. Now, she thinks that I want to repair our relationship, but I have just caught her in another lie (haven't told her though because it's for something stupid) and quite frankly I've had enough and I'm going to teach her a lesson this time. I know i've promised NC before, but this time I want to leave on my terms. I don't give a crap about being the better person or being nice, this girl deserves everything she's got coming to her. I haven't really decided what I plan on doing, but I want it to be painful for her so that she knows how bad she has hurt me.
totallydumbfounded99 Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 I totally understand that! And personally, if you really don't plan on ever being friends with this girl, I say do it!
EC Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 I wouldn't recommend doing anything nasty. Yeah she lied and yeah shes a bitch but take it for what it is...leave her for good, and move on with your life. My mother once told me ' Good things happen to good people' think about it.
blind_otter Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 I say, don't. She'll get hers in the end and you won't have to have the guilt on your conscience. It might seem like a good idea now but I promise you it will backfire. NO CONTACT is your friend. The best revenge is moving on, living life, and feeling good about yourself. Totally ignoring her existance and moving forward. Wasting your mental energy on this sh*t is worthless.
Author sanne Posted May 11, 2005 Author Posted May 11, 2005 in a strange way i feel like she deserves to get this from me. too many people in her life treat her too kindly, she needs someone to slap her upside the head. and frankly i'm never going to talk to her again and i dont really care about what is right or her feelings anymore. this is how i'm going to move on, and i really don't care about being the bigger person this time.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Now, she thinks that I want to repair our relationship... Which is exactly how she is going to bring you to your knees yet again. You may think that you are strong enough to take it, but what if she convinces you that she's changed? What if she tells you that she loves you and wants to spend the rest of her life with you? What if looks up at you tears in her eyes and asks you to make love to her? You think you'll actually say no? Nope. She knows that too, and will see right through this anger and get right down to the truth: that deep down under all this anger you want her back. Seriously, from reading your posts this girl has a grip on you, and has been able to trick you in the past. Giving her the opportunity to do so this time is a very, very bad idea. Once she gets you, it will that much harder to take when she crushes you again (and she will...) The only way to get yourself out of this is to cut off contact completely and try never to see or talk to her again.
laRubiaBonita Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia Seriously, from reading your posts this girl has a grip on you, and has been able to trick you in the past. Giving her the opportunity to do so this time is a very, very bad idea. The only way to get yourself out of this is to cut off contact completely and try never to see or talk to her again. AMEN!!!!!! why did you not do mean things 2 months ago?
Lonestar Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by laRubiaBonita Be careful* *Karma is a red-headed B!tch! Yep, watch out for those Karma Kops!
Author sanne Posted May 11, 2005 Author Posted May 11, 2005 look I know what you guys are saying is true, and ideally I want to be able to follow them. however, too much damage has been done, there is no turning back for me. this girl is going to get what she has coming to her, and then some. after i'm done with her she won't want to ever do what she has done to another person again. i've decided i'm going to trick her into thinking i am falling in love with her again, and then when things are good between us i'm going to drop her like a rock without any explanation at all and never speak with her again. is this low? yes. is this immoral? yes. do i care at this point? hell no. 1 or 2 months ago i would never let myself do this, but now i don't care if i get bad karma for years, it'll be worth it.
EC Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Yeah ok..but what if it backfires on you and you end up falling even more in love with her once things are 'perfect' between you guys? I just dont think its a good idea.
Author sanne Posted May 11, 2005 Author Posted May 11, 2005 no way man my heart has already moved on. i now realize she will never change. she had me fooled with her whole act, but i ain't buying it anymore. and things can never stay perfect because she keeps screwing up. it's like she doesn't want peace, stability, and happiness. she's this cold manipulative bitch and she's going to get the biggest payback of her life when i'm done with her.
tiki Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by sanne no way man my heart has already moved on. Sure about that? Get over it dude. People aren't perfect and life goes on. Now go be proof of that.
tiki Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by sanne she's going to get the biggest payback of her life when i'm done with her. Watch yourself punkass. You're the type to turn psycho in a sec and you'd do something stupid. Leave the girl alone. At this rate, I can hardly say I blame her. Who would want to be with you at this rate, seriously? GET A ****IN GRIP.
Author sanne Posted May 11, 2005 Author Posted May 11, 2005 i will move on, but not before I let her really pay for what she has done.
tiki Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by sanne i will move on, but not before I let her really pay for what she has done. No man, take a step back and look at yourself. You're kind of creeping me out.
Naive Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by sanne i will move on, but not before I let her really pay for what she has done. Ok this is taking it a little too far. Chillax!!!!
EnigmaXOXO Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Ah, Sanne….revenge plots are better left to the imagination so you can look back and laugh at them later. If you act on anger, you may end up with a healthy dose of regret and embarrassment . Believe me, if it weren't for my own good conscious I'd have bodies buried all over the place by now. But you know what I found to work best?... When you leave that person with the last memory of you being at your very best. It's easy to walk away from someone who's angry and vindictive. It helps to validate their decision. But if you maintain an air of dignity, grace and kindness, THAT'S what they'll spend the rest of their life looking back on…and missing. Make sure that you conduct yourself so well in a relationship (from beginning to end), that no other man will ever compare to the memory of you. Of course, depending on how well you learn to execute this relationship technique, you may end up with more than your fair share of psycho stalkers! So be careful how you use it!
Author sanne Posted May 11, 2005 Author Posted May 11, 2005 whoa......you guys are right, i need to chill out. i'm sorry i just got so overcome with my own anger and rage. i think i'm just going to sit her down and let her know how i feel to be honest and leave it like that.
EC Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Make sure that you conduct yourself so well in a relationship (from beginning to end), that no other man will ever compare to the memory of you. The best revenge plan I can think of~
blind_otter Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by sanne i will move on, but not before I let her really pay for what she has done. That's it, this is bad news, you sound like my psycho ex. Guess what happened to him? - restraining order - jail time - awaiting trail will hopefully get 20 years LEAVE HER ALONE.
tiki Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by EnigmaXOXO When you leave that person with the last memory of you being at your very best. It's easy to walk away from someone who's angry and vindictive. It helps to validate their decision. But if you maintain an air of dignity, grace and kindness, THAT'S what they'll spend the rest of their life looking back on…and missing. Make sure that you conduct yourself so well in a relationship (from beginning to end), that no other man will ever compare to the memory of you. Pure genius. Originally posted by sanne whoa......you guys are right, i need to chill out. i'm sorry i just got so overcome with my own anger and rage. I see improvement..... Originally posted by sanne i think i'm just going to sit her down and let her know how i feel to be honest and leave it like that. Then I see this! Let it go, let it go, let it go.
laRubiaBonita Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 i was gonna say, when we were kids and would TP (roll) people's houses that we did not like, my mother used to tell me that she would have taken it as a Compliment, because it had to take a lot of thought and planning and time. which, is true, your anger was soo strong because there are still feelings there. you really cannot hate someone you do not really care about.....cause you should not be feelng anything anything anyways. that prob. does not make any sense either.................
Author sanne Posted May 11, 2005 Author Posted May 11, 2005 you guys are right, I want my last memories with her to be the best she's ever had. I want her to think back at me and always feel as if she will never love someone as much as she loves me. I'm going to be the best person I can from now on.
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