Texting first

[CollegeKid101]

Hey guys so I met this girl awhile back, she had a bf at the time and I had a gf. Fast forward to now (about 6 months) and I'm single and she is too, but she still talks to her ex.

 

We never had a sober conversation before so I wasn't even sure if she remembered me when I saw her Saturday night. Well, she did I ended up buying her a shot at the bar and leaving it for her and when I got to the next bar she came up to me and introduced herself and thanked me for the shot and we ended up talkin for probably an hour and really hit it off. She gave me her number and I texted her while we were still talking just so she had mine too.

 

We ended up getting separated somehow, but an hour after I left the bar she texted me where am I and I ended up texting her awhile later and she had already gone home. We texted a bit the next day and I asked if she's going out and she said probably not. I told her I was and Maybe I'll see her if she goes out. She didn't text back and we ended up seeing each other out, this time it was a bit awkward. Not sure why, we talked for maybe 2 minutes, exchanged a hug and then went our separate ways.

 

That was Sunday night, haven't spoken to her since. Apparently the ex is in the picture but I can't help but think she's not somewhat interested if she texted me that way. I'll probably see her tonight, should I text her if she's coming to our party? Or just wait it out?

[La.Primavera]

It depends what you want from her. Right now she probably isn't taking you very seriously because it's only about going out drinking. If you actually want to get to know her and go out on a date then don't ask her if she is going partying, just ask her out on a proper date.

[JewelD]

It doesn't sound like she's really interested. It's easy to get caught up in the alcohol and party scene and talk/flirt/sleep with people you wouldn't be interested in during the daytime. Don't text her, but say hi if you see her. If it's an awkward encounter again, I'd just leave it alone.