spiderowl Posted August 29, 2015 Posted August 29, 2015 It sounds like she likes you; whether it is as more than a friend is hard to tell. She hasn't seen you for many years so you both have to get used to each other again. She seems to be trying to get that across at least. If she's as gorgeous as you say, she will have had lots of attention from guys and will know the pattern that a guy will follow if he's interested. Suggesting prolonging the evening, going up to your room, that kind of thing. You may be genuinely interested in her as more than a body but she doesn't know that. She is used to guys coming on to her. If you like this woman and think you want a relationship with her, then you need to 'build' a relationship. This doesn't happen overnight. She will slow you down because she probably doesn't want another guy who comes on strong and then proves to be only interested in her body. She will want to know you like her as a person and that you've got staying power. Rebuild your friendship and then see how things develop.
Zagan Posted August 29, 2015 Posted August 29, 2015 Dropping hints about going back to your hotel room alone and how you're sure there's something on the TV bla bla makes it sound like you wanted her to go back with you and maybe she didn't like that. Hence the comments about the second or third date etc.. This ship has most likely sailed.
Author ChicagoSparty Posted August 29, 2015 Author Posted August 29, 2015 Dropping hints about going back to your hotel room alone and how you're sure there's something on the TV bla bla makes it sound like you wanted her to go back with you and maybe she didn't like that. Hence the comments about the second or third date etc.. This ship has most likely sailed. She knew I was staying at a hotel in another city more than an hour away. I wasn't inviting her back with me and that was pretty clear. It was just an obviously joking fake guilt trip.
Author ChicagoSparty Posted September 5, 2015 Author Posted September 5, 2015 Welp.... Have not heard from this girl since the day after we hung out. So....that's how that went down. The only thing interesting and mildly relevant that has happened was that I ran into a mutual friend of ours, who happens to be really close friends with this girl. The first thing she said was 'Heyyyyy...I heard you got drinks with ____'. She had a little bit of an expectant look on her face and a little bit of a mischievous grin. I said 'Yep, it was a good time'. She then started to say, 'Soooo...?', but then somebody walked up and distracted us. I kinda had the feeling she was going to try to get something out of me. I know when people are digging. After the distraction, though, I brought up something else and we spent the rest of the time talking about that. Not sure what to think here, but I'm leaning heavily toward not thinking about this at all anymore. Thoughts???
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