Author patentlyunique Posted August 31, 2015 Author Posted August 31, 2015 Without trust there is no relationship. But there isn't a relationship without communication either. Tell her that next time she gets defensive. About a year after we were married I got very jealous of one of DH's work colleagues. Although he was freaked out & hurt that I didn't trust him, he bit his tongue & talked through my fears / jealousy with me. Okay .... so it has been about 3 weeks from the day that I thought my girlfriend cheated on me and she woke up with a sore (looks like a cold sore) on her labia. She is going to the doctor to have it checked out. Does anyone have an opinion as to whether this is suggestive of her cheating?
Author patentlyunique Posted October 27, 2015 Author Posted October 27, 2015 Well, I began this thread in September of this year and I just wanted to update what happened. My GF and I got back together for a while and she wanted me to just forget about what happened and "start fresh". I said I would try. But I had trouble starting fresh. I kept looking for signs that she was cheating. I found out that she was cheating with multiple men during our relationship including her ex boy friend. She caught an STD (which I did not) but ended up conning me out of thousands of dollars. So the next time my gut tells me something...I'm going to listen. Smackie9, you should stop giving advice.
Author patentlyunique Posted October 27, 2015 Author Posted October 27, 2015 Well, I began this thread in September of this year and I just wanted to update what happened. My GF and I got back together for a while and she wanted me to just forget about what happened and "start fresh". I said I would try. But I had trouble starting fresh. I kept looking for signs that she was cheating. I found out that she was cheating with multiple men during our relationship including her ex boy friend. She caught an STD (which I did not) but ended up conning me out of thousands of dollars. So the next time my gut tells me something...I'm going to listen. Katiegirl, you are obviously biased towards women and you should stop giving advice.
smackie9 Posted October 27, 2015 Posted October 27, 2015 Smackie9, you should stop giving advice. Sorry I post on so many threads, it was for someone else.
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