whats wrong with my relationship, IS IT ME???

[mommy of 03]

Im not sure whats going on with me. I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years and within that time frame I can say we have been through soo much together. We now have our son after a miscarriage 7 months befor we got pregnant for him. My Man convinced me at that time to hve my tubes tied, Boy I wish i never did now. But at that time It was like this, Everything seemed to be my fault somehow even if it wasnt There was me saying im sorry, anything to mke this man happy, I was so inlove with him. Now Things are different. We just moved into our own apartment and i recently started a new job (in wich i work with his sister, we get along great). . . and now im not sure whats going on with me. Like I never want to have sex, and when he convinces me i just want it to be done with fast and i try to get into it but i cant. we have sex mabey 1x week

I had my tubes tied and i am wondring if it has anything to do with it? Like My Fiance says i am not myself since i started this job..he blames it on my job..I know i love him there is no question about that. I keep having these dreams that he is sleeping with someone else..And yesterday we werr having a conversation about it and hesaid that he dont wanna have to go somewhere ese but ifhe does it's gonna be my fault. Gosh there is soo much to this story...I will keep posting messages and all the reply's will greatly be appreciated

[Pocky]

Is your aversion to sexual contact only with your boyfriend or do you also have little interest in masturbation? Are you finding others attractive and ponder sexual contact with them or have you completely lost all interest in sex?

[blind_otter]

I doubt your tubal affected your sex drive, as they are not involved in hormone production. Unless some horrible accident happened while your were having this procedure done....

 

Too little information to give advice, but I just wanted to pop in and say that.