JewelD Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 So I met this girl on OKcupid about 2 weeks ago. She wanted to hang out but I'm a couple hours from home for school. I really wanted to meet people near my hometown as that's where I plan to live after college. So she said we would work something out. In the meantime I suggested skype. She said yes and then kinda blew me off for a few days. She's a really bad texter according to her profile. Then towards the end of last week we started talking again and she took down her okcupid profile (Not sure why). Her texting was a little better, but I feel like I have to initiate the conversations. Like I'm essentially the guy in the situation even though I'm a femme and she's a stud. I don't know if that's the way she prefers it, but that's how it's happening and I'm really not used to pursuing people. I've mostly dated men before this and they did most of the work. So my dilemma now is how to go about moving forward. I like texting, but I would like to skype her just to see her face and so we could be a little more comfortable with each other. I feel like we've been texting a bit but it's so impersonal and I feel both of our interest levels would begin to fade if we don't move on to the next step at some point. So should I wait for her to ask or should I take the lead again? If so, how do I go about asking her on a date? Whether it's skype or in person (I don't mind traveling there or having her come here, but I do want to make sure she is who she says she is first). I don't want to come on too strong, but at the same time, I'm not sure what she wants out of this.
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