K2z Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 OK. So 30 days ago, roughly 2 weeks into a break, I wrote a short heartfelt email saying I think what's happening is a mistake, I'm willing to commit to you, succinct but emotional stuff. 6 days ago.. about a month later.. I get a one-liner email response to the above: "I miss u so much." I replied within an hour: "And I miss you. Much more than words can say." Then, last night: "I miss u a lot and forever". Again, responding to that original email described above. I have not replied. What the heck? She seems to be reading the original email repeatedly. And I want like crazy to have her back (see my story here). Soooo... what do I do.
pidgeon1010 Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 Do nothing until she does or say something substantive that indicates she wants more than to ping you every now and then to see if you are still pining for her. Unfortunately you took that bait, hook, line and sinker. "I miss you" from a dumper usually means nothing. I can't tell you how many "I miss you"s I got from ex but we are still broken up 4 months later (2 months NC). Let's assume it was a way for her to test the waters for a reconciliation (like most dumpees think), her reply after you also responded is enough information for you to realize she isn't interested in coming back. I miss you [but not enough to come back to you]. Continue NC don't bite at breadcrumbs. 1
Satu Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 You've made your feelings known. Now it's her turn. Do nothing more for the moment.
Author K2z Posted August 23, 2015 Author Posted August 23, 2015 It's hard as hell to hold back. I think she'll be leaving for a new life in a major world city soon. I feel like the clock is ticking to up the ante. I've got a letter all written out... it's kind of a Hail Mary. But I also know that my emotions are playing tricks on me, and I am not seeing clearly the true effect that anything I might say would have on her. 1
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