walkingonair Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 We started talking this week. Haven't met yet but he asked to see me. He's a great guy, initiates contact with me first but I saw his instagram and scrolled through his pics and saw that he dated a girl for a year and broke up with her beginning of last year. I'm worried he's not ready to be in a relationship and i'm not looking for anything casual. What should I do guys? Every guy i started dating in the past had an ex they weren't over and now i'm scared ((((((
wb1988 Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 I think this is something you need to discuss with your friends, it isn't something you'll find any internet forum of help with. 1
d0nnivain Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 He's been single for 1.5 YEARS. Go ahead & meet him. Stop looking for problems where none exist. 3
Author walkingonair Posted August 23, 2015 Author Posted August 23, 2015 He's been single for 1.5 YEARS. Go ahead & meet him. Stop looking for problems where none exist. Thanks. I've just had bad experiences in the past and I know that it usually takes guys a longgggggggggg time to get over someone :/ and dating people who aren't over an ex is hell and really messes you up
Versacehottie Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 Thanks. I've just had bad experiences in the past and I know that it usually takes guys a longgggggggggg time to get over someone :/ and dating people who aren't over an ex is hell and really messes you up Not everyone takes this long. Don't project your last experience onto this guy. If you like him, just go for it. Be as cautious as you want to be based on what you feel and what he is giving you, not past relationships. Relationships are a risk inherently. good luck 1
katiegrl Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 (edited) Thanks. I've just had bad experiences in the past and I know that it usually takes guys a longgggggggggg time to get over someone :/ and dating people who aren't over an ex is hell and really messes you up Based on your recent threads, are you over your ex? I agree, dating someone who is not over his/her ex, can really mess you up. So go out with him, get to know him a bit. If you determine he is not over his ex (e.g. if he brings her up, talks about her without your asking), he is probably not over her. Don't go out with him again. And be sure you are over YOUR ex as well, as if you are not, that would not be fair to him. G'luck! Edited August 23, 2015 by katiegrl
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