wantnotshould Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 I recently unblocked her from my phone and asked for the rest of my stuff back. She said ok, but then kept trying to make conversation. I cut things short by giving her very short replies. About a month ago I found out she was dating someone. It hit me a little bit, but very lightly. I was happy with my reaction. Then I was on the explore feature on instagram and found a picture of her. It ended up being the gf's account. I ****ed up and stalked and found out she started dating her 2 weeks after breaking up with me. That hit me hard. She strung me along til she met this girl. Then she dumped me when she started talking to her. She went on 2 trips with this girl and seems to have sacrificed a lot for her. It hit me hard at the beginning. It more than anything made me feel like an idiot for wanting her back for the first month or two. It took me back to the beginning of the break up and how miserable I felt and how violated I felt. It made me relive all the ****ty things she did, like not giving me my stuff and buying sex books on my amazon account, and making me feel like **** because i didnt want to talk to her, and writing letters to me stating that she missed me and calling me by my "couple" nickname. She did all this while being with another girl. **** her. And damn was I an idiot for suffering so much for a person like that. Anyways, vent is over. I'm back to good now. It was a rough week when I found that out but I'm back to normal. Now she has sent me a couple of nice texts about stuff she knows I am into. I have been polite but remained obviously dry in the responses. The last text I didn't respond because I think she'd get the wrong idea. I don't think I want her as a part of my life. I just want to say to anyone going through the first months that it does get better. It will suck, but it'll be a very self-exploratory experience. You'll grow as a human because of it. Just hang on. Wait for the rollercoaster to end. You'll be much happier. I know I am.
dumbass2 Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 "I don't think I want her as a part of my life." It sounds like you might still be on that roller coaster or contemplating getting back on it. If you meet her to get your stuff, then you may get back on. If you have it sent to you or have someone else get the stuff, you might avoid it. Best thing is that if the stuff really isn't much, then let it go and get back on the block. If it's been 8 months, is it really stuff you need or just an excuse to try and see her again?
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