BewilderedRose Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 I've been seeing this guy since January & everything was going fine until around 10 days ago. He had exams all last week & called me the day before they started. I accidentally missed his call so he had left a voicemail saying that he'd speak to me after his exams were over & that his phone would be off during them. His exams have been over for 5 days now so I''ve tried calling but I can't get through. He used to call & text everyday but I haven't heard anything now since that voicemail. Do u think he's angry that I couldn't take his call or is this his way of ending things? Please help the waiting is driving me crazy, thanks
ReluctantRomeo Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by BewilderedRose Do u think he's angry that I couldn't take his call or is this his way of ending things? No sane person ends 4 months of relationship over a missed phone call. Do not blame yourself for this. It does sound like something is wrong though. It could be a callous way of ending things. Equally, something else might have happened. If you're his gf and cannot get him on the phone, in this situation you are well within your rights to contact him via friends or family. Please help the waiting is driving me crazy, thanks I'm not surprised. This is only natural.
EC Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Something is definitely up. Even if his phone doesn't work..doesn't he have friends? Pay phones? Hello he can find a way to contact you. Something smells tuna fishy!
blackchild Posted May 16, 2005 Posted May 16, 2005 girl i'm going through the same issue and i know that it's hard to give this guy up because he's so cute. but trust me you're going to have to.
RecordProducer Posted May 17, 2005 Posted May 17, 2005 It's possible, but not necessarily true. Don't panick and over-react right now! Wait until the exams are over. Perhaps you distract him from studying too much My fiance has this thing with not calling when he goes on a business trip. The first time it was so frustrating, I thought it was over. But we communicated it and now he calls me about every other day when he is on a business trip. Different people have different quirks. You'll see he will tell you "I told you I was not going to call you until my exams are over, but now my exams are over and we can continue normally." Everything's gonna be okay! If not, come here, we'll console you.
lostinlove0479 Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 I just answered a post with a girl going thru a very similar situation. There is NEVER a good enuf reason to not get in contact with someone. I mean, he knows where you stay, he probably has your email address and if it's his phone there are pay phones, friend/fam phones, etc! IF a guy stops calling you something is WRONG! I've never had this happen to me and things were okay. He probably has something else going on with another girl somewhere and this is a sticky time. Never doubt that he is seeing someone else, when his actions aren't matching his old attentive self. I'm telling you BEWARE! You know my ex pulled this exam I'm too busy stunt and I bought whatever his reason was at the time. 4 mths later it all came to light that he was still sexing his ex. I'm telling u, men want to complain about women and such but at least we don't run and hide, we keep it real. As always, I hope that I'm wrong. It's tough. But, it's life and it doesn't get any easier. Good Luck. lostinlove
LikkleMissConfused Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Yes I am going through the same thing. It is so hard, because it’s so new. Only been four weeks and he has left me in limbo. Just go through your emotions with your friends and leave him alone. Don't try to call him or text. Like lostinlove said they know where we live, our telephone number and if they want to talk to us all they have to do is pick up the phone. My situation is different in the sense that it is so new. You've been with your BF four months that counts for something! Don’t be too suspicious but leave it alone and let him come to you. But I have given myself a deadline. If I don’t hear from him three days after his exams finish then its over. Because I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t give a thought about my feelings or want to know how I have been etc. Even though I really like him and was prepared to make that little bit of extra effort its could I found out now rather than later. I know it drives you crazy its driving my crazy too, I feel very hurt and upset especially as he doesn’t reply to my texts. And if its so new for me I can’t imagine what you must be feeling. Distract yourself and chin up. Lets try and support eachother.
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