grokcahsevol Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 I'm sure many of you know my story, if not, here it is. ex broke up with me after 9 years. Going on 3 months NC, she got into a new relationship right away with someome she was with 12 years ago! She was 15, I was 17. Do I still think about her? of course I do, we were together for 9 years! I do care for her and wish her the best of course Do I still dream about her? I do indeed! Do I cry myself to bed every night? I did for about 3 weeks, then said f*ck it! Am I still in love with her? Nope. The day I said f*ck it, was the day I started feeling 1000% better. I started going out by myself to concerts and bars and started to bring my social skills back up. I'm super introvert, so it's hard for me to make new friends and just to talk to people. However, yesterday was an awesome boost of confidence and self growth I went to a concert in NYC by myself, had a few drinks before hand (to save money) none of my friends wanted to come cause they didn't like the music. So I get there and I started to go up to women and men and asked them if they wanted to play a drinking game, some said yes and some were like wtf. The ones that said yes: Made new friends The ones that said no: Their loss. Here's where things got a lot of fun The music started playing and I had an awesome buzz going, and dancing by myself which made other people started to dance. I met one girl and 2 of her friends who I was with most of the time - I knew she wanted to hook up but I didn't give in. We danced together and had a f*cken blast! While this was happening I noticed another girl kept trying to get my attention but I ignored her cause I was just having too much fun, after ignoring her for about 5 minutes, she came up to me, pulled me in and we just started making out. 15 mins later? The first girl I was with and dancing with started making out with me also. Last night has been one of the best nights I had in a long time. The first girl did end up giving me her number but I somehow manged to delete it from my notes on my iphone, very bummed about that. Moral of the story: Stop crying your self to bed, start doing more proactive things and go out and enjoy your f*cken life either with people who love you or by your self! I tend to enjoy doing things solo and meeting new people. I'm also planning a backpacking trip through Europe for next summer and may be going with another girl I met who already planned on doing the same.
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