is what she is doing wrong?

[craig.wi.795]

My girlfriend and I have been having problems that were caused by me and i kept making it worse an whenever i tried to talk to her about it i would **** up the conversations because of my tourettes. she said she wants me to have individual counselling.

 

She said she won't talk to me about the issue we have been having until i see a counsellor.

 

So i waited a week to have an appointment while she refused to talk to me, and then i messed up the appointment as well because of my tourettes. Because the appointment didn't work, my girlfriend said she would not talk to me until the second appointment which is in a week. So for the next week she isn't going to talk to me about the issue again.

 

Is what she is doing wrong? Blocking communication about the issue while i wait a week to see the counsellor and then another week because my tourettes messed up the counselling appointment?

[guest569]

That seems a bit odd and unreasonable to block off communication.. Without knowing what the issue is, but I would talk about anything with a partner. What do you mean the appointment was messed up, did you go to it?

[madjac74]

It doesn't matter if she is right or wrong, she has a right to do what is best for her. I suppose you should just feel fortunate that she is at least giving you a chance.

[GemmaUK]

What was the thing you kept doing?

 

Do the counsellor and your gf know you have tourettes?

[craig.wi.795]

What was the thing you kept doing?

 

Do the counsellor and your gf know you have tourettes?

 

Yes my GF knows I have tourettes

[GemmaUK]

Yes my GF knows I have tourettes

 

You need to make sure the counsellor knows too.

If you felt severely stressed at the appointment then try writing your responses down until you feel a little more relaxed.

 

Your gf is obviously very upset, her wish not to talk to you will no doubt be stressing you further.

Is the issue that kept happening a tourettes issue or is it something you have the ability to control?

[ExpatInItaly]

How did you mess up the appointment?

 

And what are the problems you've been having that you created?

 

You have another thread going asking about a similar issue with your gf making fun of you. Are you just looking for us to tell you she is wrong, or?

[craig.wi.795]

You need to make sure the counsellor knows too.

If you felt severely stressed at the appointment then try writing your responses down until you feel a little more relaxed.

 

Your gf is obviously very upset, her wish not to talk to you will no doubt be stressing you further.

Is the issue that kept happening a tourettes issue or is it something you have the ability to control?

 

Its about something she did a while back that really bothered me and really hurt me.

[ExpatInItaly]

Its about something she did a while back that really bothered me and really hurt me.

 

So how is this created by you?

 

This doesn't make sense.

[craig.wi.795]

So how is this created by you?

 

This doesn't make sense.

 

 

I miswrote the question. It ws something that she did that bothered me