menyou Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 What is it that most men look for and what keeps you interested? I understand everyone is different. Preferably 30+ and not new to dating. What changes your interest from just passing time to actually putting a good amount of effort into someone?
Author menyou Posted August 22, 2015 Author Posted August 22, 2015 35 Signs You're A Lucky Guy Dating A Mature, Uncomplicated Girl I hate to post anything from Elite Daily. Not even sure I can, but looking at the list of someone you are with meets 30+ of these criteria is that a good thing? Or still not enough. I am at a point where I know I am not perfect and nobody else is either. Nobody communicates what it is that they really want and it's quite frustrating.
Keenly Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 35 Signs You're A Lucky Guy Dating A Mature, Uncomplicated Girl I hate to post anything from Elite Daily. Not even sure I can, but looking at the list of someone you are with meets 30+ of these criteria is that a good thing? Or still not enough. I am at a point where I know I am not perfect and nobody else is either. Nobody communicates what it is that they really want and it's quite frustrating. You said you wanted 30+ men to respond and then you post an article from elite daily, which is basically for 16 year old girls. 2
Author menyou Posted August 22, 2015 Author Posted August 22, 2015 You said you wanted 30+ men to respond and then you post an article from elite daily, which is basically for 16 year old girls. ouch. haha! Touche!
Keenly Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 ouch. haha! Touche! Seriously though, avoid elite daily if you are a grown woman. That stuff is just aspertame for your brain. Sounds sweet, but it will give you cancer.
Author menyou Posted August 22, 2015 Author Posted August 22, 2015 Seriously though, avoid elite daily if you are a grown woman. That stuff is just aspertame for your brain. Sounds sweet, but it will give you cancer. I did say "I Hate to Post Anything From Elite Daily"lol 1
Learningtowalkagain Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 A man who's 30+ is tired of the games. Tired of dealing with girls who think they should be able read their minds. Just wants a girl they're attracted to and connect with. One that doesn't nag them constantly. Hopefully she has a life of her own and doesn't depend on you to make her happy. Takes her mans needs into consideration. It's not all about you. Men are simple. 1
Author menyou Posted August 22, 2015 Author Posted August 22, 2015 A man who's 30+ is tired of the games. Tired of dealing with girls who think they should be able read their minds. Just wants a girl they're attracted to and connect with. One that doesn't nag them constantly. Hopefully she has a life of her own and doesn't depend on you to make her happy. Takes her mans needs into consideration. It's not all about you. Men are simple. ok. Perfect. Thats me. Ill let you know how things go. ha! 1
Siquijor Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 After my experience with women the most important factor for me if I was looking for a serious relationship is whether she's a fair minded and appreciative trustworthy type who is mentally stable. Obviously I would have to be attracted to her to a degree physically, although she neither has to be the most beautiful or have an amazing body.
candie13 Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 35 Signs You're A Lucky Guy Dating A Mature, Uncomplicated Girl I hate to post anything from Elite Daily. Not even sure I can, but looking at the list of someone you are with meets 30+ of these criteria is that a good thing? Or still not enough. I am at a point where I know I am not perfect and nobody else is either. Nobody communicates what it is that they really want and it's quite frustrating. Bunch of bs, that article ! Loads of times, what grown men in their 30+ need is to grow a pair, when they meet a decent woman. Yeah, most single women in their 30 won't ever be "uncomplicated " because they have a life & their shyte to keep together. It's not RS that are hard and keeping people single, but compromizes because no one wants to give in or feel as if they're missing out. Anyway, just venting ...
Woggle Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 My criteria Is not a misandrist or a man hater Takes responsibility for her actions when she is wrong Not a cheater Doesn't have a heartless attitude towards men Craves peace and happiness instead of drama. Doesn't have a disposable attitude towards relationships
ZA Dater Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 What is it that most men look for and what keeps you interested? I understand everyone is different. Preferably 30+ and not new to dating. What changes your interest from just passing time to actually putting a good amount of effort into someone? The people I want to date and put the effort into are usually : very intellectual : lots of general knowledge : well spoken : not jaded from the whole dating scene : intelligent. I am not going to put effort into someone who doesn't "wow" me within 15 minutes of meeting them.
Jj66 Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 I am not going to put effort into someone who doesn't "wow" me within 15 minutes of meeting them. That's an *awfully* high standard. I never would have gone on a date using that standard. Very few people wow me. I'm not easily impressed. A woman may pique my interest that fast or faster but I'm almost never wowed (outside the bedroom at least.)
Author menyou Posted August 22, 2015 Author Posted August 22, 2015 That's an *awfully* high standard. I never would have gone on a date using that standard. Very few people wow me. I'm not easily impressed. A woman may pique my interest that fast or faster but I'm almost never wowed (outside the bedroom at least.) I was going to say the same thing. 15 minutes. interesting.
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