leeroy1985 Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Hiya people! Ive just got a little question..... how do you keep the girl in your life interested in you? I mean.... is there anything i can say or do.... or even text to her! Something i can suggest that we do together. I love her and i dont want to be average (like her ex) i want to be interesting and different> So if anyone has any ideas or things that you've done/had done to, that you liked or that worked id like to know. Cheers All help greatly appreciated
Jtizzle Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 things you two can do together thats out of the norm are: goin fishin and get to know one another better..(gettin to kno u time, and dinner ) go to a scrapebooking store and make a scrapebook together find out what her fav. show,actor,movie, or thing is and buy her a lunchbox with it on it, and then fill it with momentos of yall relationship..or fill it with her fav. candy or little knick knacks.. write her a song/poem..or make her a homemade card, paint her a picture take her on a roadtrip Pamper her for a day,get her a day at the spa, and then a lil gift card to get a outfit and then tell her to meet u sumwhere for a romantic dinner... bake her some brownies,cookies, or make sum homemade candy.. leave sticky notes that you love her on her car, or some place where she'll see them tell her u love her daily and that you think shes beautiful mail her love letters (even if yall live together) make a cd with her favorite songs on it, and do a karoake for her take pottery or cooking classes together (u can sign up for classes at your local michael's, hobby lobby, or other arts and crafts stores..) at odd times of tha day, u can text/call just to say hello and that your thinking of her i have more, but im havin a situation over here..but i hope these will do for you
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by leeroy1985 Hiya people! Ive just got a little question..... how do you keep the girl in your life interested in you? By not smothering her. By not becoming emotionally dependent on her. By not being jealous or overly possessive. By not being a doormat. Keep your appearance looking good as often as you can: hygiene, clean clothes, healthy body/eating. Positive outlook. Security in yourself. Willingness to say no from time to time (a woman does not like a 'yes man', if its apparent that he doesn't want to do something and is only agreeing because he feels he has to - if you don't want to do something, then say so and suggest an equally fun/exciting alternative that you think you and she both will like.) Willingness to accept her 'no' and alternate suggestions as well. Having your own hobbies/interests that don't include her. Also having some hobbies/interests that do include her. Establish a small, meaningful 'thing' that you like to do together - mine and Mr. B's is coffee at a little shop in town with a stroll around the downtown riverfront area. ... and a few others. These were off the top of my head.
latida Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Do something different. It doesn't have to be something new every weekend. Plan something you both want to do one weekend or weekday when you are off. Horseback riding? Picnic is really easy. Just pack up some fruit, cheese and crackers, bottle of wine, (corkscrew!!) and etc. Go somewhere that is special to you or somewhere new even take it on a short road trip. Think of everything, blanket, bug-off, some tunes. Bring swimsuits or shorts and take it to a small stream or fountain. Stick your feet in! Finding a hobby together is a good idea. It helps you both because you have something fun to do together and something fun to talk about together too. But the bottom line, I have fun with my guy, wherever we are. And just being around him is fun. If you don't have that in the 1st place, well you could put on a circus and it wouldn't matter!
Lonestar Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by Jtizzle things you two can do together thats out of the norm are: goin fishin and get to know one another better..(gettin to kno u time, and dinner ) go to a scrapebooking store and make a scrapebook together find out what her fav. show,actor,movie, or thing is and buy her a lunchbox with it on it, and then fill it with momentos of yall relationship..or fill it with her fav. candy or little knick knacks.. write her a song/poem..or make her a homemade card, paint her a picture take her on a roadtrip Pamper her for a day,get her a day at the spa, and then a lil gift card to get a outfit and then tell her to meet u sumwhere for a romantic dinner... bake her some brownies,cookies, or make sum homemade candy.. leave sticky notes that you love her on her car, or some place where she'll see them tell her u love her daily and that you think shes beautiful mail her love letters (even if yall live together) make a cd with her favorite songs on it, and do a karoake for her take pottery or cooking classes together (u can sign up for classes at your local michael's, hobby lobby, or other arts and crafts stores..) at odd times of tha day, u can text/call just to say hello and that your thinking of her i have more, but im havin a situation over here..but i hope these will do for you Follow most of these suggestions and you're bound to send her running into another guy's arms. If a man ever asked me to scrapbook with him, I'd laugh in his face.
alphamale Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by leeroy1985 Ive just got a little question..... how do you keep the girl in your life interested in you? - don't be available all the time - be emotionally distant - have your own life and interests outside the relationship - don't grovel for anything, keep your dignity and self-respect - don't see her too often, once or twice a wk is fine - tell her you love her - tell her you hate her - be a sinner and a saint - don't say you love her too much - don't require her approval - be a man and act like one - take care of yourself first and her second etc etc etc, this is not all inclusive, of course.
Jtizzle Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 Originally posted by Lonestar Follow most of these suggestions and you're bound to send her running into another guy's arms. If a man ever asked me to scrapbook with him, I'd laugh in his face. well every chick is different..some are ho's and dont like romance, some are romantic and dont like normal stuff that ho's get presented with dinner, movie, and then the bed..different strokes for different folks (amen to that)..those are things that i do for dudes, and some of those things were done for me, i loved it, they loved it,rest is history..its all about the girl, and what kind of person she is..closed minded where she doesnt care for much and just the same ol same ol, or open minded to be like hmmm well thats not the norm, but we could try it.. quite funny u tryna knock what im sayin, but yet u didnt post anything better
latida Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Damn Jtizzle! Those were good suggestions, just not all are perfect for a guy to suggest. Can you imagine "do you want to scrap book with me?" Hell no! I think you are right on many points, but some are a little too cute. Cool, I mean I would scrap book with you, just maybe not on target for the young man!! HEHE
Merin Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 Originally posted by la]ti[da Damn Jtizzle! Those were good suggestions, just not all are perfect for a guy to suggest. Can you imagine "do you want to scrap book with me?" Hell no! I think you are right on many points, but some are a little too cute. Cool, I mean I would scrap book with you, just maybe not on target for the young man!! HEHE Yep You did offer a lot of good idea's Jtizzle.. but there are a few that just probably most (and I say Most) Guys wouldn't be down for.. scrapbooking IMO and the Guys I know is one of them. Thats great that you and Your Guy can do this.. good to go.. but just saying *Most* Guys.. probably not. Doesn't mean either that Lonestar is a Ho.. C'mon now.. that isn't right.. as you have your ideas to what you like, she does as well (and as you said amen we're all different) It just seemed implied that's what you were saying so yeah.. Anyway.. Leeroy, I also think LB gave you some great examples... and the only thing I can add is for me if a Guy can make me laugh... I'm hooked
Jtizzle Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 yea i guess they arent on target for a youngman..i could see a metrosexual doing that mayb *shrugs*.....well if all else fails...take the girl to a sex shop, buy sum sex toys, go home and have rough booty nakey sex for 2minutes ... @ merin..i wasnt callin her a ho.. ...im just sayin of any lady that's down for the one two three count of dinner movie bed...but if she fits in there..then well i guess i am callin her that..
Author leeroy1985 Posted May 13, 2005 Author Posted May 13, 2005 Nice one people! Cheers for the advise. She wont know whats hit her, hehe
EnigmaXOXO Posted May 13, 2005 Posted May 13, 2005 My partner keeps me interested inside the bedroom because of how he treats me outside the bedroom. Constant reassurance that he is content and happy. Words and gestures of affection. Emotional support and open lines of communication. Never a cruel word or action towards me. He lifts me up and offers constant encouragement…makes me proud of the way I see myself through his eyes. And to me, he's sexy as h*ll! Not just because of what he has going on the outside, but because of the beautiful person he is on the inside. Sounds sappy, I know. But if most men/women would learn the trick to nurturing their emotional intimacy, they'd never have to worry about how well they compare in the bedroom.
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