losangelena Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 The opposite is also true. Guys don't want to come off as needy, not 'cool' or pushing the envelope too far. In the end the result is just terrible conversation because everybody isn't haven't conversations naturally. Yes, of course. No one has to tolerate bad behavior from anyone else, regardless of gender. I am just a woman addressing another woman, hence using women as an example.
Author JB4 Posted August 23, 2015 Author Posted August 23, 2015 I so needed that, losangelena. Thank you...I may have to print that out and post it where I can see it every day. You are 100% right....that was just one of about a handful of dates I've ever been on. I have turned down a few guys who asked me out before, otherwise there would have been more. I do agree with the too much texting thing. While, in the moment, it seems like a great thing, it has done me no good. As soon as his texting backed off a little I would mentally freak out, and that's no good at all. Calling would have been the more mature thing for him to do to cancel on me...I once asked a guy out and HE called me to confirm our plans for that night. I need someone like that! Of course, I can't dwell on it anymore if his excuse was true or not...it's also very easy to say that you're sorry in a text and not actually mean it. He said "I promise I'm not blowing you off," when I said we could plan for another time. I guess the fact is that he didn't plan for another time and he would have done so if he had truly wanted to. :/ 1
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