Flozfzx Posted August 21, 2015 Posted August 21, 2015 My ex and i broke up about 11 months ago. From an 8 year relationship. We didnt talk for about 4 1/2 months now shes in a new relationship. She contacted me in april and said she wanted to work things out but is trying to get out of the relationship shes in i said ok i did push/blew up her phone a few times to just talk to guy into ending it but she says to me "when the time is right. " Shes been with this guy for 5 months now maybe longer i see the sadness on her face. When i talked to her few times in person. I am dating also and she recently found out and is upset that i am. I gave her an ultamatum and told her if she wants to pick up where we left off. She needs to do it at the end of august because im not trying to keep going on months and months for you to finish "when the time is right" i will move on with my life and if you happen to resolve your issue with him to give me a call. Its been a year that we broke up and she now decides to work things so what else should i do?
aloneinaz Posted August 21, 2015 Posted August 21, 2015 Wow.. there's soo much wrong with this entire scenario. What good will come out of getting back together from a failed R/S? She clearly doesn't want you back or she'd IMMEDIANTLY dump her current guy. It sounds like she was enjoying the attention from both of you. Her new guy and her old guy both fawning over her. I wouldn't touch this situation w/a 100' pole unless I was addicted to drama, emotional pain and chaos in my life. My opinion? Vanish from her life and keep dating till you meet someone new. Recycling all that crap from the break up and post break up will never allow that relationship to start over fresh.
Chi townD Posted August 21, 2015 Posted August 21, 2015 Keep living your life and keep doing what you're doing. Live your life as if she isn't coming back, because chances are, she's not. You can't put your life on hold waiting for someone that can't decide what she wants.
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