Jay13094 Posted August 21, 2015 Posted August 21, 2015 i have (had) the biggest crush on one of my coworkers at work- i used to be a regular there so he knew who i was but never got his name. I wasn't initially attracted to him when i used to come in but once we started to work he was extremely flirty with me. He would always playfully touch me whenever he had the chance to. We stare at each other (and i catch him staring all the time) and just flirt very obviously. Ive only been here for about 3 weeks and i've worked with him a couple times now. I eventually wanted to get his number so I went in on a day i wasn't working with my friends (i was drinking) and i ended up giving him my number that day- he said he'll text me. He didn't text me the first day, but instead around 4-5am while he wasn't sober. The text was very casual but was weird b/c of the time it was sent. Im talking to my friend about it and he said you know that **** dates ****. I was SO shocked b/c of how much he flirts with me- she's also another coworker that we work with and we know each other. No one at work seemed to of mentioned that they were dating but maybe no one really knows? because i obviously had no idea. I did not bother asking if that was true because 1. its not too deep 2. I just got his number so nothing really happened. But wow, I don't know how to feel.. we've been texting throughout the day but we both take hours to respond back to each other lol (more him than me) I'm not going to flirt with him at work anymore or text him ever. I wasn't planning on bringing up the girl until he were to ask to hang or something along those lines.. thoughts?
Strongrunner Posted August 21, 2015 Posted August 21, 2015 Some guys just like the attention especially if they are in a relationship. Somehow it validates them as a man because other women find them attractive. He may not cross the line and ask you to go for a coffee etc, it could simply just be the attention and the fun of texting he is after. Just ask yourself are you happy to carry on texting and paying him attention or are you best spending your time on a man that is single and could potentially offer you a relationship?
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