vyacc1 Posted August 21, 2015 Posted August 21, 2015 I have been with my ex for 5 months. That is not very long but shebis pregnaut. We planned to move in together. But she said she didnt want to be with me because we fight to much about her past. She has cheated in her past and i did talk about it to much. She says she loves me but wants to live together as just friends. I told her no if we are not ina relationship then i wont sign the lease. She said she does not want to be with me so thats that. She said she still thinks i am the one but she is afraid. Does anyone think she is doing this because there is another man? Is it possible to win her back?
seasickpeeve Posted August 21, 2015 Posted August 21, 2015 I have been with my ex for 5 months. That is not very long but shebis pregnaut. We planned to move in together. But she said she didnt want to be with me because we fight to much about her past. She has cheated in her past and i did talk about it to much. She says she loves me but wants to live together as just friends. I told her no if we are not ina relationship then i wont sign the lease. She said she does not want to be with me so thats that. She said she still thinks i am the one but she is afraid. Does anyone think she is doing this because there is another man? Is it possible to win her back? You're still talking about her past. You don't trust. I can't say if you have reason to mistrust her or not but from the short bit you wrote it sounds like you are pushing her away with this.
Author vyacc1 Posted August 28, 2015 Author Posted August 28, 2015 So she called me and decided she did want to move in with me. We are waiting to see if we are approved. In the mean time I was giving her space and not calling her at all. So this morning she calls me asking if i could bring her food on my way to work. I agreed since she is pregnaunt I want to make sure she eats. I get to her place and she is all dressed up. She takes the food out of my hand and tries to kiss me. I told her I did not want to kiss because I dont want to kiss and it just be a casual thing. She said it is not we love eachother and we both want to be back together and she said she wants to work toward that like I do, so we made out. She then wanted to have sex I said no, that we need to wait for that until we are offically back together. after beggin and beggin i give in, which i never should have. I didnt want to have sex because i told her we need to see if we can work toward a relationship slowly without fighting and i felt if we had sex she would just go back to her same attitude. Well after sex she tells me she loves me, even calls 2 times while i am driving to work just to say she loves me and asks if i would come over after work. I told her i would stop by for 30 mins or so but not longer then that. well two hours later she calls me back saying that it is not a good idea and she does not want to live with me. I am just so confused. I always heard sex after a break up is bad but jeez. What is she doing?
mightycpa Posted August 28, 2015 Posted August 28, 2015 I read your first sentence and was all ready to tell you that you were going to get played, and to watch how quickly she was going to change her mind. Then I jumped down to the end.
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