912brian24 Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 (edited) After my my ex popped up at my house the other day I got to thinking about maybe she was missing me and wanted to see me! So today I sent her an email just to say that it was good to she her and she looked beautiful (which I know was wrong to do) and the response that I get was like I was some regular dude that she knew! For over 3 weeks on this site everyone has said move on and today I felt that power to tell her that 6 months down the road after you've been plowed by some dudes and realize what we had you better not dare call my phone!! I've went through and deleted everything that we had together and threw away stuff! Today is the day that I look through the ****ing windshield and not the rear-view mirror!! To everyone that said she doesn't deserve what you wanted to give her y'all are right and sorry it took so long to come around!!!! I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders!!!!! I'm not a back up plan girl I'm a #1 draft pick! Edited August 20, 2015 by 912brian24
Gus Grimly Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 Hey, it's great to hear you're on your way to a new life. I think most of us stumble when faced with "The End" of a relationship. As long as you can pick yourself up and carry on that's what counts. Hanging on to hope is just part of the deal. We all have gone through this and speaking for myself, I went against the wisdom given here and it didn't turn out well. Rejection can be humiliating and ego bruising but if you use it the right way, it can help you grow even stronger.
aloneinaz Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 After my my ex popped up at my house the other day I got to thinking about maybe she was missing me and wanted to see me! So today I sent her an email just to say that it was good to she her and she looked beautiful (which I know was wrong to do) and the response that I get was like I was some regular dude that she knew! Yup, it was wrong to send her an email AND compliment her. You were clearly fishing for her to confess that she missed you, wanted to see you and you didn't get it. What you did do is tell her by sending the email that you're still hung up on her and miss her and want her back. I'm sure it turned her off further. For over 3 weeks on this site everyone has said move on and today I felt that power to tell her that 6 months down the road after you've been plowed by some dudes and realize what we had you better not dare call my phone!! Well, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. To tell her not to contact you again, demonstrated that your hurt and bitter that she doesn't want you. I'm sure she got a chuckle out of reading that as she rolled her eyes. She probably called her GF's and laughed out loud reading that to them. I've went through and deleted everything that we had together and threw away stuff! Today is the day that I look through the ****ing windshield and not the rear-view mirror!! To everyone that said she doesn't deserve what you wanted to give her y'all are right and sorry it took so long to come around!!!! I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders!!!!! I'm not a back up plan girl I'm a #1 draft pick! Ok, you're talking the talk about looking out the windshield but.. are you going to walk the walk going forward? I'm not trying to be mean or harsh OP. I'm just giving you a different perspective on this post. Personally, I think you'd of been MUCH better off vanishing from her life and going radio silent. Even if she contacted you later, you should of stayed NC to heal and move forward. Silence speaks VOLUMES about how people feel. Most people get that when they are being ignored, it's a STRONG indication that the person wants nothing to do with them and they take the hint. Good luck moving forward!
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