Struggling to move on from harsh words my ex boyfriend said to me

[Michelle3494]

Are you kidding? When I caught my Ex cheating on me and I confronted her with it, she blasted me. She called me a loser, that I was too stupid to ever go to college or University, that I was satisfied working dead end jobs for the rest of my life and she was going to go with someone that actually had a future.

 

 

But, the difference between you and I is after that confrontation, she never contacted me again. However, I took great internal satisfaction knowing that I proved everything she said about me as wrong!

 

That's good im proud of you! People don't realize that these harsh words can actually be motivation to changs and become the best person that we could possibly be

[Chi townD]

Awww... Thank you, GIRL! Now Go out and find your motivation!

 

 

Look, there's a guy out there that is going to be 10 times what your Ex is. That would never say that kind of stuff to you, even in anger. That will treat you right and will become your best friend. Someone that you will consider your partner and it will just feel wrong not having him around you and you get all excited when you know he's going to be with you again. Trust me, that guy is out there and he's looking for you.

 

 

So, you need to put yourself out there so he can find you! No point in being a shut in or a hermit. Live your life, have lots of adventures! Learn to love yourself again!