sweetieme Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 I started talking to this guy Joe that I worked with last summer again a couple of months ago. I broke up with my boyfriend of over 2 years 3 weeks ago. Right after I broke up with him, Joe started pursuing me right away. We hung out that weekend and had a great time. We fooled around but didn't have sex. I had to go back to school after that weekend so I didn't see him for 2 weeks. We talked almost everyday he told me alot how he liked me alot and he invited me to go to the beach with him the weekend I got back. That Friday he wanted to have sex but I told him that I just didn't want him to have sex with him and then have him leave me. He told me that he wanted a relationship with me and then we ended up have sex. On the trip we did it a couple of times too. We had an ok time on the trip but he payed more attention to his friends than me. Granted he doesn't see his friends very often. Then we came back on Sunday and he asked me to come over on Monday before he had to go to work. We ended up having sex again but after we were done he really didn't pay attention to me. I called him and said that I felt like Monday was a bootycall and that I didn't like it. He said he felt like it too. Then he said that he felt like we were rushing things. What does this guy want?
Artscrafter Posted May 11, 2005 Posted May 11, 2005 He could be just as confused about where the two of you are headed with this as you are, if not more so - or he's rather skillfully manipulating you. I'm just not sure which, but if he's talking about rushing it, I'm inclined to go with the "confused" hypothesis.
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