bartelsnick Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 went out like 3 weeks ago with this woman who was 7 years odlder than me. im 27 shes 34. she has two kids she has every day except every other weekend when we first met we got laong great , she thought i was just trying to get n her pants which i wasnt. it did take awhile to meet due to her having kids the night we met we ended up making out and thats it the next night she was drunk and we texted dirty and she told me to send a nude so i did which she liked ever since then she hasnt been as talkative. she was sick with the flu for a week but she really doesnt text like she did before she has mentioned we need to see each other again but really hasnt made effort i am hoping to see ehr again this weekend its frustrarting cuz i had a good time with her and we had lots of laughs but i feel likei pushed her away i ry not to text her to much snce i kno shes busy but i dont want her to think i forgot about her
d0nnivain Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 Between her kids & being sick it may just be a tough juggling act. Ask her out on a date for the next weekend she doesn't have her kids.
xcupid Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 went out like 3 weeks ago with this woman who was 7 years odlder than me. im 27 shes 34. she has two kids she has every day except every other weekend when we first met we got laong great , she thought i was just trying to get n her pants which i wasnt. it did take awhile to meet due to her having kids the night we met we ended up making out and thats it the next night she was drunk and we texted dirty and she told me to send a nude so i did which she liked ever since then she hasnt been as talkative. she was sick with the flu for a week but she really doesnt text like she did before she has mentioned we need to see each other again but really hasnt made effort i am hoping to see ehr again this weekend its frustrarting cuz i had a good time with her and we had lots of laughs but i feel likei pushed her away i ry not to text her to much snce i kno shes busy but i dont want her to think i forgot about her If she was sick with the flu she might still be recovering - it takes a lot out of a person. Plus she has kids. They take up a lot of her time. Be patient. Be understanding. Ask her out on a date - that shows you're interested in her.
Redhead14 Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 went out like 3 weeks ago with this woman who was 7 years odlder than me. im 27 shes 34. she has two kids she has every day except every other weekend when we first met we got laong great , she thought i was just trying to get n her pants which i wasnt. it did take awhile to meet due to her having kids the night we met we ended up making out and thats it the next night she was drunk and we texted dirty and she told me to send a nude so i did which she liked ever since then she hasnt been as talkative. she was sick with the flu for a week but she really doesnt text like she did before she has mentioned we need to see each other again but really hasnt made effort i am hoping to see ehr again this weekend its frustrarting cuz i had a good time with her and we had lots of laughs but i feel likei pushed her away i ry not to text her to much snce i kno shes busy but i dont want her to think i forgot about her she has mentioned we need to see each other again but really hasnt made effort -- A) she's been sick and B) why the heck don't you just call her and make a plan for next week with her? She should be feeling better soon. And, not texting so much, is OK, but don't fall off the map yourself. She may think you're forgetting about her. Call her once in a while instead of texting . . .
Author bartelsnick Posted August 20, 2015 Author Posted August 20, 2015 I have asked but she hasnt replied. Her kids started school this week so im sure its been busy Idk. I dont text her every day. Maybe every 2 to 3. I text because that way she can get back to me when needed
smackie9 Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 You met 3 weeks ago and this is how far you have gotten? This lady doesn't have time for you, you need to keep looking. If she calls that's find, but don't hold your breath. 1
Author bartelsnick Posted August 20, 2015 Author Posted August 20, 2015 You met 3 weeks ago and this is how far you have gotten? This lady doesn't have time for you, you need to keep looking. If she calls that's find, but don't hold your breath. She always has her kids except for every other weekend
smackie9 Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 She always has her kids except for every other weekend And that is why I say she doesn't have time for you.
RightThere Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 And that is why I say she doesn't have time for you. Agreed. She's not really interested in you so don't spend a bunch of time and energy.
WomenWubber Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 Doesn't seem like you blew it to me. But dating her will not exactly be fun and games because she has two kids to take care of.
Jj66 Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 As someone who has been on the other side I can say that I was unable to make time for someone I was very interested in without neglecting my kids or blowing off my friends and family. The reality was that I just didn't have time to date. But the result is the same if I can't spend time with you either because of insufficient interest or important obligations. You should wish me well and move on to someone who can give you the amount of time you need. 1
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