star_shooter Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 Hi All There is this girl who works at the Gas Station/Store. She usually is at the register (working with another person at the register). How do I talk with her to see if she has a boyfriend? and if she does not; how do I ask for her phone number? I do not go to the place very often, but the couple times I've been there she has been working. Thank you All
d0nnivain Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 Say something cheeky. Compliment her good looks. Say she must get hit on all the time. Ask how her BF feels about that.
LilaMarie Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 If you ask for her number she will surely let you know at that point if she has a boyfriend. You are overthinking. Dating rule#1 don't overthink Good luck.
kenmore Posted August 20, 2015 Posted August 20, 2015 Take your LEFT hand, put it out across, toward her left hand. Say "please give me your hand." She will automatically put her left hand in yours. when you have it, look to see if she's wearing a ring. If not, say "no ring" with a smile on your face. If she is, then say "your husband is a very lucky man", walk out and hold your head high any time in the future that you go in. All we have as guys is the ring! It's not always accurate. sometimes they are going "steady" with a guy (yes I still use that term!!) It's the best indicator you have and if she's not wearing a ring, then you have a perfect right to ask! Then just ask. Best of luck! Ken
kenmore Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 Ugh, I gave such good advice here, what happened? Today I met a woman in the grocery store. We "ran into each other" four times, the last time being in the booze dept (A great sign IMO!) We talked each time and this last time I was able to help her get a twelve pack out of the 'fridge because it was located right at the hinge so was wedged it there. Gorgeous lady! Stunning smile. I said to her "hi I'm Ken (extending my hand) and you're very attractive!" She smiled back and took my hand. Her name is Mary. We're going out tomorrow night. Women shut guys down in high school. In college they are a bit more approachable but in our later years, geez! Just ask guys! 90% of the time you will get a date! I am leaving the area in a bit over a month. I told her that already (just trying to be forthright) and that is a problem, but we can have some fun in a month if we get a move on! Unfortunately it will be sad when we have to say goodbye (or at least farewell.) Glad I spoke up though! Life can be great! Ken
phineas Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 Say something cheeky. Compliment her good looks. Say she must get hit on all the time. Ask how her BF feels about that. when I go through the checkout with fresh food and other items that make it obvious I or someone else is going home to make dinner a female cashier sometimes mentions my wife and how lucky she is I'm making dinner or some other thing. Ill just tell them its just me and like to eat healthy or something like that. I wonder if some of them were trying to find out if I'm single now. Lol
Sweet Workaholic Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 when I go through the checkout with fresh food and other items that make it obvious I or someone else is going home to make dinner a female cashier sometimes mentions my wife and how lucky she is I'm making dinner or some other thing. Ill just tell them its just me and like to eat healthy or something like that. I wonder if some of them were trying to find out if I'm single now. Lol Yup. Instead of saying 'just me' say 'I wish' with a big inviting smile. But don't stick around. Then next time you go through the line pick them out and say "can I call you sometimes?" The very worst that can happen is she'll be flattered and still say no.
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