Wombat1980 Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Met this girl at a bar. we ended up satin shortly after, about a month or so. She told me her husband and her were seperating because her husband was abusive both verbally and physically. This isn't the first time she has left him. They have two boys together. We ended up moving quite fast, once she decided she was ready, she moved in with her parents, getting her name off all her husbands accounts, changing her address on her license, etc. After about 3 months we moved in together. She was really REALLY into me! I mean, she would do anything to keep me in her life sort of stuff. She was always scared I would leave her because of pressure from the kids and her husband always texting and being a jerk about random things. I've never had a trust issue with her at all. But the last month or so, things started coming up and she was never really all interested in getting the divorce done this whole time we dated, saying that it would be cheaper to wait until a certain amount of time has passed because switching residency of counties needed to be 6 months before getting assistance of some sort, not exactly sure what it was all about. It didn't bother me much. We were generally happy. She wrote me random letters and left them on my car, would keep in touch throughout the workday, told me she loved me almost constantly.. But her past never seemed to add up at times. I ended up drinking one night, got involved by talking to her husband to ask him to stop harassing her so much. Then him and I ended up talking on the phone while she was upstairs. Basically, I discovered that a lot of the things in her past were completely different than what she told me. She lied as far as I was concerned. I don't know what happened but a fight ensued between her and I, it even got physical which I've never had happen in any relationship prior to this.. I ended up getting thrown in jail. She moved out within two days and took a lot of my stuff and because I'm still involved in court stuff, I am not allowed to contact her. She went back to her husband but that's about all I know. I'm just really confused as to why someone that was really so into me and dedicated in almost every aspect would just up and leave without figuring out why this all happened? I should add that during the fight, I did not hit her. She punched me several times at which that point I pushed her out the door and locked it hoping she would chill out! She lied to the police saying I was pushing her down and spitting on her...? We've never been in even a slightly big argument before this incident.. General advice as to what I should do with the situation once my charges are resolved and contact is okay. Do I even bother? I'm very confused and it sucks...
NopeNah Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 Sounds like the story she told you, is the same story,this "bar fly",will tell her next whiskey sidekick. Leave this one alone! She should have "WARNING" tattooed on her forehead!
Tayla Posted August 19, 2015 Posted August 19, 2015 not much to get confused about. She was married and you were her toy. I think you deserve a single person who can be entirely honest and committed. Although this lady was honestly deceptive and committed . Get your life on track .
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